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writes: I went through a divorce about a year ago and I guess I am not handling it very well. I have friends who went through this too and to a tee, they are all now in new relationships. I cannot seem to shake the hurt and humiliation of my breakup and though I am not bitter I do not have much trust as I put trust in my ex husband and that caused heartache. I am lonely and have spent a lot of time alone in the past year but I guess I do not think I am much of a catch and just do not see myself in a relationship again....that seems to be something that happens to other people. People tell me that I am attractive but I am in my forties and it is harder to get back into the mix at this age. How to you move on from a bad situation and get back into the game?
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reader, LiLKiss +, writes (9 September 2006):
 ok hun, just relax just yr. ago you got divorced. The reason maybe you havent find that special one is a)you still love your ex housbend, b)recently got divorse c)not a social person.. you are probably scared and you feel like you need someone to comfort you right now . what you need to do is forget about your exhousbend, get involve with some kind of activity that will keep you bizzy and make your life more interesting. and as you said you are attrative that is a good thing you just have to relax and dont stress about it so much.I know it is easy for me to say that but try.. and im sure if you just dont worrie about that special one you might find him when you at least expected. I hope i helped you but i wish u the best and take care..
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