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writes: i am 23 and have been with my fiance since high school we have had some problems and traveled alot. Our relationship was the best ever when she decided to join the airforce. i visited her at boot camp graduation and all was well until a acouple of weeks ago when she called and told me that she is unsure if she wants to get married or even move back in together. there is 3000 miles between us now and i don't know how to treat the situation. i know that i for sure want to spend the rest of my life with her and had know question that she felt the same way. people that i tell are just as shocked as i am. i guess i am just wondering if maybe never living on our own has trapped us in to what we are or what i should do. i really don't want to lose her and i am afraid that if i try to hard i will push her away.any help would be apreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2006): It sounds like she has experienced some inner change while at the boot camp and now believes you are not as compatible...sorry but growing apart from one another happens.
I say go and take her out for dinner and ask her what changed her mind. Tell her how you feel and have a list of reasons why she should stay and work on it. Have her think on it and visit her a week later, tell her you are giving her a week to reconsider.
If she still says no I am thinking you will just have to let her go Sweetie.
Best of Wishes.
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