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writes: So this last weekend I was at my cousin's wedding and this guy and I hit it off all weekend and we spent the whole weekend together and we were acting like a couple, I have known this guy for 8-9 years and me and him always had an off and on seeing together sort of relationship but this time it was different. We both are single and at the end of the weekend when it was time for both of us to go home, he kissed me goodbye and said "well this was fun, we should do it again sometime" and he kept referring to us in a future context. So I am confused, Does he like me? Does he want a relationship? Do I call him? Please Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2006): You shouldn't be worried if he likes you or not, you should be wondering if he can respect you and be there for you; that you can trust and rely in him.
Just ask him if he is looking for long term relationship and if he would want it with you then brace yourself.
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reader, Tine  +, writes (8 September 2006):
 i truthfully don thtink that he wants a relationship, maybe just a fling every now and again. But is this what you really want?? If you like him i say leave it a while before you call him, then maybe arrange to get together again. Go on a few dates with him to get to know him alot better before making any decisions on asking him for a relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2006): call and ask him if he wants to do it agqin
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2006): You could give it a couple weeks just to see what happens. But to be honest, hun...if he wanted to continue the relationship I would think he would've made a more solid, concrete plan to visit you, in the near future. Not the offhand answer he gave you. That was a bit too half-hearted and nonchalant. When a guy is crazy about a women, he will make absolutely sure, she knows (without a doubt) he's interested and he'll go out of his way, to see her again. He didn't do this. Sit back and wait for him to contact you and see where it goes from there. You will know in time, if he's sincerely interested. In the meantime, get out and have fun with good friends and try not to dwell on this too much or it will drive you bonky.
Good luck, dear.
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