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writes: Bit of a silly question I know but is there any tips you can give me to win a place in a mans heart. Because my only male pal is the guy who's heart I want to win over I have nobody else to ask. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010): Dear reader
The heart of a man is one crazy place to find yourself in, and you have to mak e sure that he sees you in a different light, not just as a friend!
Ways to do this:
1. Send him a naughty text, a lil at a time(you dont want to scare him off)
2. leave messages where you know he will find it and see if he reactes to any of this...
if not honey you are in the friendzone, and that's the last place you wanna be when you want a guy. Men date woman whom they think they can control and have some kind of power over, but in reality you will have to let him think that you think he is teh best any gal can ask for....a.k.a EGO BOAST! any man is inlove with his ego
Good luck and keep us posted on your journey to catching that guy! If you do have time, read the book : Act like a lday, think like a man- Steve Harvey" You'll benefit from his advice.
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reader, halrulz +, writes (11 June 2008):
Okay, if u want to win his heart be a flirt tell him your secrets make him feel like he can trust you DO NOT TELL him about : our ex-boyfriends , nasty situations or about things he really dosent care about he's not going to care unless heh likes it too. If he wont ask you ask him if he says no act like yoyu doont care after you leave if you do cry at HOME oyu dont want him to feel sorry and say yes. Stare at him whe hes not looking and always be around him but if you guys dont hook up then don't be upset if he goes out with another girl sorry its long but take the advice it garenteed and dont let the fear of not getting your man keep you out of the dating ZONE !!:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2007): the best way to win fair 'strumpet's' heart is to be yourself. another way is to make it obvious that you like him with-out scaring him. make it known a little at a time. take baby steps. another way is to show him you sexy side, again a little bit at a time!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2006): Tell him you love him through your actions. Here's how:
1. Make him feel that you value him by truely listening to him.
2. Make sure that he can see that he is in your thoughts.
3. Make a fuss over him when it's Christmas, birhday, or any other big event.
4. If you can, spoil him a bit.
5. Take him on an adventurous day/afternoon out.
6. When the moment is right, make a pass at him - you only live once! Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2006): "They" say a way to a guys heart is through his stomach so you could bake him some cookies, yum, yum. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2006): I hate to say it but if you make someone love you, is it real?
However, there is no harm in exploring whether the feeling is mutual. Maybe start by making them see you as a woman and not a pal by spending time doing things you don't normally do and visiting places you don't normally go. This will help them to visualise you in a different way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2006): You can't win over somebodys heart, you've either got it or you haven't.
However, Many relationships start off as friends and it's usually when one person gets into a relationship that the other realises how they feel. I'd say get yourself a BF and then see how your male friend reacts and then you'll know if you have his heart. But dont get with anyone, remember you must like the guy and want to have a relationship with him for it to work!!
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