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writes:hiya well i have a good life i got really great friends and i have such a laugh at school with them and my m8s are the people who get me through my life at home because me and my mum dont get along at all and i dont have a dad anymore so i think ever since my mum and dad broke up i havent really felt anything for boys but now i have fallen in love with this guy for over 9 months and i think he knows but part of me doesnt want to trust men and im trying to get over him not just because of my mom and dad but i really dont think he likes me anymore but i sometimes think is it because my mum and dad have split up i find it hard to love ? any advice wud me great thanks
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reader, midgetgem +, writes (9 September 2006):
 Darlin,
This is really hard for you because all you're seeing is your Mum and Dad's mistakes.
You have to realise that that's their lives and their mistakes and that you are an entirely different person to either of them and, while there's no garuntee that you won't make any mistakes, you have a life to lead completely dependant of them and there's no reason for you to repeat the mistakes they've made.
The guy you like is not your dad and you are not your Mum.
Do your best to try to accept him for who he is and be youself with him.
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