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writes: i have been with my girl for 5 years, since high school. i cheated on her and she caught me. at the time 3 years ago i wasn't sure about us. after much time and talking she took me back. the last three years we have had some awesome times and also some tragic times. she became pregnant a year and a half ago and had to be put on bed rest. with only one source of income we couldn't live where we wer. so we decided to move back home to raise child by family. the day she arrived in town she gave birth to early and adra only lived for 15 minutes. She took it alot better than i thought she would. but we then rethought where we were in life and picked another direction to go. we decided that i would join the military. but due to issues in my past it would take a year for me to join. so she decided that she would do. all was well and on track to a nice future together. now she is in tech school and is not sure if she wants to get married. has there just been to much tragity for our relationship. i am more than willing to do what it takes, but i am just not sure if our past has completely pushed her away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2006): Counselling needs to be set in place for you both. Can you arrange couple's counselling?
This will help you both work together and overcome and communicate with one another.
Best of Wishes.
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