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writes: I met this guy when i went back home this summer and on our first night out we slept together, later on we realised that we had been chatting on the internet for over a year and we both know a lot of things about each other so that made me feel really good about what was happenning between us. He's in the marines so we didn't have much time together, so things didn't move on much, i started to feel he wasn't as interested in me as i was in him. Now after almost 2 months i am back and i suspect that i might be pregnant, but i am bit unsure whether i should have this baby or not cos i think it would be the same as having it on my own. Should i tell him or not? Thanks
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reader, Astrid +, writes (10 September 2006):
Well I have to tell you this... if you want to have the baby then tell him if not shut up but honestly I think he has the right to know though if you don't eant to have the baby and he wants it will mean deep shit
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reader, bonym +, writes (8 September 2006):
Of course you should tell him, he has the right to know is he has potentially fathered a child. I cant tell you what to do about the baby, I dont advocate abortion personally, but I am not you, its not my situation and my beliefs are not relavant to yoour decision, its your life dear and you need to decide whats best for you, but sweetie, please tell him as you need to decide what to do as a couple, ok. Take care and I hope everything works out well for you. xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your advice on this, it is doing my head in i couldn't go on without talking to someone about it. Once again thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2006): the choice is all up to you to keep the baby, but respectfully you should include his opinion and not keep him in the dark about something this seriouse.
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