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writes: theres this guy and i like him. but on wednesday he kissed me but i think it went too fast, i dont want to hurt his feelings by turning him down if he asks me out. but im not sure if i want to say yes. please give me some advice, im new to the dating world. i realy like this guy but im not sure if hes after one thing or he really likes me. Reply to this Question
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reader, claire_x100 +, writes (15 September 2006):
 The best thing to do is if he does ask you out and you dont feel u properly know him is to get to know him a bit more. You will soon find out if he really does, make sure he never rushes you or pressures you into anything. If he does this then he aint worth it.
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reader, Abacadaba  +, writes (14 September 2006):
 tell him you want to date him before you go out with him, just do stuff together, meet up, go see a movie, etc, then when you feel its right, can ask him out. No need to rush into things :)
Hope it goes well :)
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (14 September 2006):
 Well the only way to find out if this guy really likes you and wants to really get to know you or whether he does just want to use you and that's patience. Let him take you out a few times, spend some quality time getting to know each other. If he loses interest when he doesn't get you into bed straight away, there's your answer. However, if you spend a lot of time with him and think he's a genuine and loving guy, then things might go further.
Girls need to learn to hold back until they really know more about a guy. Don't get me wrong, a guy who really wants a certain girl can play a good game for a long time but, more often than not, if he only wants to use someone, and she doesn't put out straight away, he'll move on.
Be one of the girls that has guys coming back for more time and time again, and not because of what she can give him in the bedroom. If you want to find someone who wants what you want and loves and respects you, hold out for a while and see what this guy turns out to be. Good luck.
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