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writes: hi ive had boyfriends before but bot very serious and i havent had one in nearly a year most of my friends have got boyfriends. im not an ugly girl i might not be the prettiest out of evry 1 but even my mates who most lads think arent nice have boyfriends. i can flirt i have a good personality i just dont know what is wrong can u gave me sum advice plzzzz anon age 15 xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2006): Because you are 15. Fifteen is barely on the cusp of the romantic awakening, and you have many, many years to go.
You do not need a man (or in your case, boy) to define yourself. You should take this time to get to know yourself-- find out where your strengths lie and your own personal opinions about things that truly matter. Explore your interests and develop your hobbies.
Your youth is about YOU. Do not waste it on a guy who will not have the mental or emotional capacity to realize how special or important romantic attachments are. For that matter, by posting this, you have shown that you yourself are not ready for a commitment of that level. Boyfriends are not accessories.
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reader, Abacadaba  +, writes (14 September 2006):
 Hey, dont worry, i didnt have a girlfriend for well over a year, then suddenly i met the most amazing girl, theres no right or wrong way of doing it, it will just happen, when your 12-15 relationships generally arnt very serious, but when you start getting older they tend to be serious. Dont go looking for a boyfriend, one will come to you, when you meet somebody with a mutual liking for each other, you will know it. Good Luck
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reader, sarah y +, writes (14 September 2006):
Hey don`t be in a rush your only young and you never know what is around the corner.You sound confident and there is obviously nothing wrong with you as you have had boyfriends so no need to worry.When i was your age somebody once said to me that you kiss loads of ugly toads until you meet your prince charming.Enjoy who you are and what you stand for by being yourself......Good luck.
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reader, stina  +, writes (14 September 2006):
 Hi Anon,
You aren't doing anything "wrong" - in fact it seems just the opposite -- you sound nice and self confident. And self-confidence is a great quality that is hard to have for some people.
Listen, you don't want to just settle for anyone that comes your way, right? Eventually you will be with someone. Enjoy your time right now with friends and having fun. Don't dwell on something like this, it will just get you down.
You'll find someone (or someone will find you). Until then, just keep doing what you're doing and having fun, too, okay?
Take care.
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