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writes: hi i am 16 and I split up with my bf a month ago, i went out wiv him for 4 months but now he has got someone new, he is happy with her but this leaves me still wanting him. Everytime i see him i want him back and i think how stupid i was to let it end, it is hurting me so so much and i dont know what to do, i dont want anyone else but him please help me
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reader, Taija +, writes (15 September 2006):
 sweetie its absolutly natural to want someone you cant have. but in the long run with the way you are feeling your emotions are all over the place you have to hurt before you can heal and move on. its a horrible feeling i know. i think the main reason why you are hurting is because he is with someone new and that someone unfourtunatly is not you. im so sorry to say this and i mean it in a nice way but it is time to move on and enjoy single life where you have no one to try and make happy and concentrate on yourself a little bit. you still have a long time to find your soul mate. enjoy being single while you can good luck and i hoped this helped. :o)
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reader, claire_x100 +, writes (15 September 2006):
 Your are obviously going to miss him and it will hurt seein him happy with someone else and especally as you havent found someone yet makes a little bit more harder. But you will get throught and meet someone better, all you can do is put on a brave face be happy for him and try and find someone new. Like they say you dont know what you've missed until you havent got it. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2006): Uh, uh. You split a month ago. He has a new girlfriend. Broken-up is just that: broken, ended, finished, over. Which means: HE can date anyone he wants; you have no say-so in it any longer. YOU can date, too, and he can raise no objection.
Read again what Lostandalone and PrettyPolly have written. Good advice, take it to heart!
Good luck!
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reader, prettypolly +, writes (14 September 2006):
you split up for a good reason. if your relationship was good you wouldnt have split. its your ego thats dented seeing him with someone else. open your eyes to other boys who could give you a good relationship and take your eyes off hes. if you got back together the same problems would be there. your young, enjoy it!!
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (14 September 2006):
 Its human behaviour to want what you cannot have. Do you really want him or just want him because he has someone new. The fact is if you wanted him that much it wouldn't have taken you a month after the break-up and seeing him with someone else to realize that. Be rational. He's moved on and I think you should do the same. Good Luck.
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