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writes: Hello,I have been on a couple of dates with a guy and really like him. However after our last date which was only last night he hasn't sent me a text. I have sent him one and had no response. He is usually quite responsive and keen. We had a great night and he was telling me how much he likes me so perhaps I am being silly and inpatient?I have had very bad luck in my relationships so am often quite wary.I am 25 and the guy I have been seeing is couple of years older.I am worried he may have gone off me, but don't want this to be the case as haven;t liked anyone this much for ages. Thanks for your help in advance.x
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (14 September 2006):
You have got to relax about this as you have only had a few dates. Sure you like the guy a lot and we have all been there but don't contact him...just sit back and wait. If he calls then I hope you go on to have a great time together but if he doesn't it just means he has cooled off or his thoughts are with other girls. Don't feel bad about that however, because it simply means that he wasn't the one for you and other men will come along who always answer your messages and knock your door down. Try not to worry and try to remember that you pair are just dating and not in a long term committed relationship just yet! Good luck.
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reader, jessi +, writes (14 September 2006):
Dont worry this is completely normal for you 2 be paranoid he will contact you, you just have to wait stop calling him the last thing a man wants is a clingy partner your only dateing take it slowly you have made an effort and now its his turn it works both ways so dont worry he will call just be patient. goodluckxxxxxx
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