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writes: i am an 18 yr old lad i only loved 2 people in my life.And I have a real problem, one has sadly passed away, and the other, I have loved for over two years.I am in the army and I think about her through the mud and the cr*p but she doesnt want me.What should i do Reply to this Question
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reader, Herr Professor +, writes (14 September 2006):
 I know you don't want to hear this, jjbeever, but you're only 18. You got your whole life ahead of you, and there are so many women still waiting for you love. It's gotta be tough being in the army, away from home and family and friends, surrounded by men all day. Your heart is still breaking for the love you lost and the love that doesn't return your feelings. But, this is a temporary thing. Focus on what you're doing and trying to get through it, and when it's over, you'll be all the stronger.
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reader, camille  +, writes (14 September 2006):
 I'm sorry for your loss but please don't give up hope. At 18 to say you've "only loved 2 people in my life" as if you're 80. You are still young and have many years in front of you to find love. It can't be easy being in the army and pining for someone back home. Try to remain positive and think about the mysteries that lie ahead. Try to be excited at the unknown girl waiting for you somewhere but you haven't met yet. In the meantime don't worry about unrequited love, it happens to the best of us! Good Luck
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