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writes: hi everyone,im a single parents of my 2 children and they are living with my parents since i am working abroad to get money to support them.my children is growing up without me but we have a good communication by phone and emails,i think im still young and i look not bad' i have some suitors who promise a real love to me, but since of having a bad experience in relation with a man in the past' i think i completely lost my trust to the man.sometimes i was thinking to live alone forever but sometimes i feel sad and longing for love not only for sex but also somebody to talk to or let say somebody u can rely on by heart and soul.now here is one man who look nice and understanding' who come to me and promise that he will love me forever, that he will care that he will not hurt my feelings.i think he is a nice man but how can i deal with it if inside of my soul has a feeling of scared and can not trust man now'i am trying so hard to work in this feeling but its really hard.how can i over come this feeling? any help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2006): I used to be very trusting, but then my whole world was turned around when I had a boyfriend who cheated on his girlfriend to be with me (and I didn't know about his girlfriend). So, as you can imagine, at the time I lost trust in everyone including my family and friends. Don't beat yourself up if you can't trust guys, maybe it's your gut instinct telling you that something is dangerous about him. Guys need to prove that they are trustworthy, and the kind of guy that you want will be patient with you and your trust issues. It's better to be less trusting than trusting (in my opinion).
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