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writes: I'm really messed up at the moment!A lot of my friends seem to have boyfriends but I've never been at all interested in having one.There's this boy im friends with he's lovely and we have done some stuff together (not sex) but I was at a club and he saw me chatting to some guys, just friendly like and Freaked out and said he never wanted to talk to me again. Thing is I dont feel really really bad although I do want his friendship.All I seem to do with boys is just kiss them and usually when drunk. Should i stop doing that and start to properly meet up with guys, even though im not sure?And what should i say to this guy to show him how stupid he's being and how much he means to me?i dont mind about brutually honest advice, thanks!
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reader, amerthyst0202  +, writes (13 October 2006):
 Tell him that you enjoy his company and his friendship but he must understand cos your mates doesnt mean that you will stop talking to other guys and if he has a problem with that then that's his problem and that's for him to sort out not you and if he continues to freak out trust me you will get fed up with it. then he could lose you as a friend as well.
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (13 October 2006):
 I think this guy is really into you, but I dont think you could ever see him as boyfriend material. He cares about you, so it hurts him to see you kissing guys you don't know.
Yes, I think you should stop doing that because you are sending out a negative image of yourself, especially to this guy.
If he means a lot to you, then DON'T tell him he is being stupid. He is just hurt because he sees you acting in this way when he obviously loves you.
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