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writes: hi im 15 and whats wrong wiv me!?! im not sure if i have ever fancied someone cos basically...i have a mate thats a boy and we are quite good friends. the thing is i have started to think about him when im not with him all the time, and i mean ALL THE TIME!but i dont understand cos i dont like the way he looks but i still catch myself thinking of him a LOT. what does this mean?do i have a crush on him and fancy him or what???
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reader, anon2907  +, writes (14 October 2006):
 Hey,
Don't forget that fancying someone is about more than just looks. There are all sorts of things that make some attractive - such as their sense of humour, their personality as a whole, their attitude to life, the way they treat you - and others, and so on.
You may not find them the prettiest flower in the vase, but the things that people do, and the way they are make them more beautiful than all the orchids in the world!!
Jeez, listen to me - yeah I can relate!
It's a great thing you're feeling, enjoy it!
Anon2907
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reader, pica +, writes (14 October 2006):
You are attracted to him. The fact that you don't like "his looks" means nothing really - you still like him, yo're looking past that. Which is a good sign as you must like him as a person rather than just an image. Personally I think "in love" is a bit more than that and really only applicable where there's an established relationship. But where you are sounds like a good start ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2006): I asked this question :)So are you saying I am in love with him or something???
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2006): People often put a fine line between things - eg: crush, lust, love, like, attraction, etc. Yet, in love, some people feel the entire spectrum of these things, and others only a part of it. So whether you have a crush or feel like you like this guy a lot, the ideal is the same. Now all you need to do is find the guts to act on your feelings. [wink]
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2006): hi i wrote this question - but how can i fancy him if i dont like his looks???
fancying means liking someones looks doesnt it???
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reader, anon2907 +, writes (13 October 2006):
Oh yeah, you fancy him. Either that, or you hate him!!
It's funny isn't it how you can be happily doing something and then find yourself thinking of someone. A classic sign that you like them though.
Maybe he likes you too??
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reader, Abacadaba  +, writes (13 October 2006):
 yes you have a crush on him :) biggest give away for when you have a crush on someone is when you think about them alot. And why does it matter if you dont 'like' the way he looks? looks arnt everything :) personality is WAY more important than looks, dont be tied down by only going for the good lookers, 9 times out of 10 the person with the best personality/the one you get on with better is the one to go for. Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2006): well...duh. Of course yuo fancy him or something. Why else would yuo be thinking of him all the time?!
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