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writes: a man that I really like wrote me a letter which was vague and said "that he wanted a happy ending". I know that he is unhappily married, and like him too but would never want to break up a marriage. He ended the letter with " p.s Don't forget the happy ending " What should I do?? I am torn because I genuinely like the guy. Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (14 October 2006):
 Doesn't matter what the "happy ending" means. The fact that he's unhappy in his marriage is HIS problem not yours. Tell him to look you up after the divorce and not before. Leave him alone until then.
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reader, pica +, writes (14 October 2006):
I think you'll have to ask him (and then tell us!). He could mean that he wants to be friends with you but nothing more - it's friendly but an ending. Anyway, he's married, get your own happy ending.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2006): It's possible that the happy ending he's referring to is between you and him. If he likes you and he knows you like him too, and he cannot end his relationship with his wife, then possibly, the "happy ending" he's referring to, is to invite you to bed with him then end his 'fantasies' to be with you on that account. Then again... Who knows right? More information would be nice... [wink]
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reader, anon2907  +, writes (13 October 2006):
 Hey,
You're right, happy ending is vague. It could mean anything, but maybe that's the point?? It seems to me like he's cautiously made an approach towards you. There's no indication though whether this is a romantic approach or just a friendly thing.
I guess the answer lies either with you to come up with a happy ending that suits you or you need to challenge him on *his* interpretation of what his happy ending looks like.
You haven't given much background into the situation. I can imagine what you're going through though, but it does seem a little unfair that he's putting this pressure on you to determine the happy ending, especially given that you are uncomfortable with the prospect of breaking up his marriage - that's a lot to deal with.
Maybe you could give some more insight to what has happened so far to trigger the letter??
Good luck :-)
Anon2907
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