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writes: Why wont she break up with her bf?Well Im in love with this girl who has a bf. She says she loves me and I actually do believe it because when im with her its different but when she's with her bf she acts as if i dont exist. She's all up on him when im not with her and when she's with me she does pretty much the same thing.She looks into my eyes and tells me she loves me. Ive told her to break up with her boyfriend and yet she still hasnt. She has really hurt me because i see them kiss and it breaks my heart seeing them do it. She knows this and appologizes to me but she then does it again. Ive told her straight up that i really want to be with her and that she makes it seem that she doesnt love me because of the way that she acts. I dont know if shes just messing with me or what. Ive slept with her and every time we sleep together she says she loves me. but i just understand why she wont break up with her bf she says she would do anything for me and ive made her cry over the phone because ive told her that she makes me feel like shit! She says she cant stand seeing me mad and she cant stand talking to me. She says that I will always be in her heart no matter what and that she would always love me but i dont know if she's telling the truth or if she is just messing with me!!!!!!!I really want to be with this girl and she says that she really wants to be with me but she just wont break up with her bf. Her excuse is that her bf's family knows her and this his sister calls her sister in lawand that her mom loves her bf but then again if she was really in love with me she wouldnt really care at all.I dont really know what to do anymore i told her thatif i were to see her do something with her bf i would never talk to her again because ive stood up for so much of her shit!!!!!! Ive really gotten into trouble for her, ive done so many things for her and i feel that she just takes advantage of mewhat would be a good way to test her to see if she really loves me?How can i get her to break up with her bf????HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007): Bro i was in this same position up till yesterday actually its like crazy that i found another like this.....First of all you need to change the relationship....What i mean is to change the relationship in2 an aquiantance relationship.....2 things can happen if you realize that she isnt chasing after you she doesnt really love you and you will be less stressed and emotional cause of it.....And in the rare case that she chases after you well idk i dont have all the answers i can tell you that if she does dont go back right away think long and hard
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007): I know were ur coming from but sometimes u just gotta move along because life isnt about how hard you hit its about how many hits you can take and keep going..... plus there are plenty of fish in the sea
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2006): You were probably an idiot who broke up with some nice girl for her. She sounds like a slut. Why would you want to be with this type of girl? If she is doing this with him doesnt it make you think she'll do it with you? All you guys love a good chase.. well you have it.. but can you honestly see yourself marrying her? She is a dishonest lier. Have you even met her family? You need to move on and find a nice girl
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2006): man, i feel where you're coming from. it's ironic, i'm in the EXACT same situation myself. the girl i love says she loves me, but is with some other guy. and she tells me she thinks i'm the one she will wind up with, and even wants to move in with me after college, but she is still with this other guy. but this could mean one of two things for you. 1) she really does love you and is just afraid of breaking up with this guy because breaking up is a scary thing to do, even if it is following your heart. or 2) she's just toying with you for the attention. i'm not sure what the answer is in your case, but the best way to find out is to just lay off for a while. maybe even tell her you met someone else or something. because if you start acting like you're over her or that you don't care anymore, she'll either freak out and want your attention back, or she won't. and if she wants you and can't stand you not being in her life, you'll know how she really feels. but if she just lets you go, then you'll know she wasn't really into you. good luck, and i hope you get your girl.
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