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writes: I have a boyfriend for 5 years and we had just broken up a month ago because he said that I don't accept him for who he is. Now I want him back, and I asked him to come back to me and I am ready to accept him for who he is. Then he told me two weeks after we broke up he had a girlfriend and they are still on until this time worst is that he hed sex with her. He told me that he likes her in a way that I am not before when we were still dating. Now he said I am the one that he realy loves and wants to break up with the girl. I am confused if I should still come back with him or not. Though I was the first girl he had sex with and I too with him. I was a bit hurt when he told me that he had sex with other girl. If he comes back to me should I just accept him? anyway it happend after we broke up.. Please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2006): looks like this dude wants the best of both worlds..5yrs is a long tym to be together..eitha he was really hurt when u broke up n went on the rebound..or he cudnt wait to hump the next thing that came across his shallow path..u kno wat..if he really loved you..would he have slept with another girl?...and would you have done the same thing to him?..hes abusin your love..if you feel that u truly trust him and would be able to cope with what hes told you when your together..then yea defo get back togetha..but if you feel that whenever u hav a fight or weneva he upsets u,ur gna rememba wa he dun..then do NOT get back togetha..when guys say things like 'you dont accept me for who i am' they are baisically tryin to say 'leme do what i want'..lame excuse to end it with u...im sure ur a gurl wid her head screwd on properly...if u are..den ul realise..dat 'ders plenty more fish in the sea'...freind x
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