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writes: i want to give my boyfriend a handjob but the only thing is that he cannot retract his foreskin. he says he can still feel sensations and ejaculate. how should i give him the handjob?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2006): If you haven't done this before, I'll share with you some advice (and keep this in mind always, because every cock, like every guy, is different and special). C-O-M-M-U-N-I-C-A-T-E. Start by asking him what he likes, try it slowly and gently at first, ask him if it's ok, adjust your technique, ask him how that feels, adjust, ask, adjust, ask, repeat forever. If you stay with this guy for a while, it will become natural and you'll reach a stage where you barely need to ask him what he wants next, but until then you need to keep the lines open. It's sometimes really awkward for someone to ask a partner to change what they're doing, so by asking him yourself, you take the pressure off, and you'll both have a better time of it. If you want a demonstration, ask him to masturbate for you (you can accompany if you like) and observe the speed, length, and rhythm of his strokes. It's a skill, and like any other, it takes instruction and practice. Better get cracking.
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