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writes: Hey, I'm a 13 yr old girl and this lad fancies me quite a lot. I like him a little bit. He's just asked me out but I really don't know because I know if I say yeah, I'll have to go with him (snog him) but that's a reason why I don't want to. Because I've never done it before. I've pretended I've done it.. lol and I know nearly everyone has done it in my school because I was there. lol. So I really don't know what to do because I'm scared he'll go round and say I'm rubbish :( What shall i do? :S Reply to this Question
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reader, danielle a +, writes (14 October 2006):
you dont have to snogg him if you dont want to. tell him that your not ready for that yet and if he likes you he will respect that and give you time. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2006): You know you can just go out with him without kissing him. That's such a strange word - "snogging". Sounds like an elephant term...
Anyway, you can snog with him later when and if you feel you want to. Until then, just see how the friendship part goes first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2006): Theres nothing wrong with waiting till your older or until you meet the *right boy*. Why waste your first snog on a boy that is *ok*. If he's the sort of person who will mock you, kiss and tell then maybe he's not that great afterall. You have to do what you feel is right. :)
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reader, anon2907  +, writes (13 October 2006):
 Hey,
If you like the guy enough (you'll know!) go out with him. If you feel comfortable with him, then snogging him will be fine, you might be nervous, but it'll be nice!! He's never going to know if you've kissed other boys or not - you can tell him it's been 1 other or 100 others!!
But if you think he's the kind of boy who'd go around saying you're rubbish, then maybe he's not such a nice guy anyway???? You say you like him a little bit? But maybe not enough??
Think about the boy without thinking about kissing him. If you honestly like him, go out with him, if you secretly think he's a bit of an idiot, then wait for the next guy to come along - or go and find one you *really* like!!
Good luck!
Anon2907
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