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She has this special bond to her ex bf and I don't like it one bit! What should I do?

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Question - (13 October 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 October 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

I have been seeing my girlfriend now for 8 months but she still has contact with her ex of 9 years they split 4 years ago they had a special bond which she seems to want to keep hold of i have issues with her being in touch with her ex and feel threatend by it all she says to trust her and shes dealing with it but i know for a fact that she has sent sexy photos via her mobile to this bloke, and contacts him every day when she can get hold of him what really messes my head though is the fact she tells me she loves me and dont ever leave me the wierd thing is i'm crazy about her and feel she is the one she has said the same things. she has also spoke to me about being together for ever(marriage) i'm really confused and don't know what to do advice please

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A female reader, sentiment +, writes (14 October 2006):

sit and talk to her let ehr know how much you love her and how her behaviour is effecting you. tell her you dont mind her talking to him but keep it restricted to when they bump into each other on the street, otherwise it may be time to cut your losses andfind someone who will show you the love and respect you deserve

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A male reader, eddie Canada +, writes (13 October 2006):

eddie agony auntShe is entitled to have male friends. Sending sexy photos to him is over the line. There is no good reason for that except to be flirty. That is disrespectful to your relationship. Calling him EVERY day, that's too much. Her thoughts should be more about you two.

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