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writes:I FEEL LEFT OUT AND PUSHED OUT i have tryed to tell my dad a thousand times that i feel he puts me to one side when it comes to his girlfrid of ten years for exsample they may go out for a meal with her kids ,and i never get asked .when i go down and see my dad his girlfried dont make me feel welcome i carnt even go in the fridge most of the time she will leave me at the front door and shout my dad for me i love my dad dearly. i am worrid about his 50th birthday cos if they all go out for a meal and dont invite me it will really upset me ... as it upset my dad when he went to a wedding and his lad he bought up from babbies wernt invited to my cousins wed it would only be the same
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (13 October 2006):
 Yep, you need to have a heart to heart with Dad and tell him how you feel. It is his place to tell his girlfriend to be a little more accommodating towards you. Hopefully she will ease up on the rude behavior and act her age. Good luck I'm sure you'll be fine.
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reader, agony- aunt-kid +, writes (13 October 2006):
 To me it sounds like your dads girlfriend is very jealous that you migh get in the way of making a serious shot at there relationship.Why don't you ring your dad maybe on his mobile or somehow with out her knowing and arrange a time when you can meet and have a serious talk about the problems you are having.Email me back and i will give you further advice if you need it.
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