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I feel like I'm getting all the pleasure and he is getting nothing from the sex with have!!

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Question - (13 October 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 October 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

why doesnt my bf feel anything during sex?

My bf and i have had sex but he says that he doesnt really feel all that much pleasure. He goes at it for 3 hours and yet he doesnt cum. He makes me cum around 15 times and he doesnt even cum yet. He's bigger than average in length and girth but i just dont understand why he wont cum. I want him to enjoy sex not just do it cuz i want to do it. I dont let him wear a condom and he still doesnt feel anything. He has to masterbate himself to finish quickly because

my vagina isnt causing him pleasure. I really feel as if he's doing all the giving and non of the recieving but i want him to recieve as well because he knocks me out after 30 minutes of sex. He does it correctly and he just makes me cum way to fast so i get tired quickly. This never happend with any of my other bf's before and he's the first one but now i really want to know why doesnt he cum after an hour

Ladies I really need some help!!!!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2006):

he probably wanks a hell of a lot, but wat i dont get is how u cum 15times, i ccan only ever cum once maybe twice if im lucky and i always have to really concentrate, it really sucks. i mean im really attracted to him and i really love him but it just doesnt happen most times i dont even cum, can u maybe help me with this. how can i cum everytime and alot more

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A female reader, Acaringear +, writes (18 October 2006):

Hi,

My boyfriend can only cum when he masterbates, I do it for him or me on top. He never comes when he is on top and I have never known that before. But I have gotten to the bottom of it. Unfortunately, as it has caused a major rift in our relationship, my boyfriend uses a lot of porn. He watches lesbian porn on the internet and masturbates. There is a phenomenon called erectile dysfunction and I believe he has this. He has desensitized his feelings in his penis. He masturbates by putting quite a lot of pressure on the end of his penis.. not many vaginas can live up to that pressure ! Good luck and do not fret it is not you it is HIM !

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2006):

Have u asked him if he masturbates a lot? That could desensitize the feelings in his penis.

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