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My bf's Xbox machine is wreaking havoc on our relationship! What can I do?

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Question - (11 October 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

My boyfriend has grown increasingly attached to his xbox. I can't remember the last time we had a conversation because he literally plays on it from the minute he gets in from work to the minute he goes to bed. We are having sex once every two weeks if i'm lucky!! I don't know what to do. Help?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2006):

trust me, done any of the below and he will not be happy, coming from a young gamer, hiding things form the xbox wil get him riled up especially if he was going to play a violent game lol. just talk to him about it. although i do like what the second response said about sitting by him with the dvd thats a god idea ut going out with friends will only lad to you getting drunk and meeting another lad or him getting jealous of it all

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2006):

I would play him at his own game (pardon the pun) by doing things you like,like going out with your friends,Just generally doing things without him,after a while he will probally confront you about this and then you can tell him why you are doing it as he is always on his xbox and what did he expect you to do while hes on the xbox.This might make him sit up and take notice.Personally i wouldnt mess around with his xbox as it is his and if you jeopardise it he might take offence and it could lead to a lot of fuss.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2006):

Hello i am in the same situation as you exactly!! apart from my mans box is chipped so i cant hide his bloody games cause there all stored on the god dam thing. id have to smash it up it resolve it.lol ive been with him 2years and lived with him 1year. i find that going out helps when u wunt normally arange anything meet a mate at your local go a friends house go see ya parents anything so when he asks were u going babe u can say i cant stand sitting here watching you on that thing again all nite so im going out! when he realises u aint gonna sit there all the time in his company he will realise hed better do something b4 he loses you 2 some1 else so he will hopefully start paying you more attention. if not start getting movies and saying you wanna watch it b4 bed seen as youve been playing it all nite if he says yes but after this game do wot i do an sit right next to his box wi the dvd in ya hand so he sees u mean it if he still continues 2 play switch it off throw the dvd at him an tell him he is a Dick! he will soon get the picture! gud luck.

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