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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half we have a 8month year old son. Hes 36 and im 22, I love him dearly he has an ex girl friend (10 year relat) that harrasses him all day long stalks him and unfortunately he cant shake her off no kids but the tie that keeps them together is that the business he owns is under her name so he has to be nice to her because of this, until titles are transfered and she is being difficult about this, he slept with her recently (5 months ago- what men call a wham bam thank you mam) and now there is a possibility there is a kid, 50/ 50, Now what is funny is that she just told him about this 5 months into her pregnancy, the again she hates me so she is doing this to get at me, but hes with me and all shes doing is ruining her life, should i allow and give him the benefit of the doubt, and wait for dna?
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reader, pica +, writes (13 October 2006):
Sorry, it does sounds like a bad situation to deal with, having his child and all, but I think you are letting him away with too much .. the "business he owns is in her name"?? She is "being difficult"? so he handles it by sleeping with her. Most people don't sleep with their stalkers .. These two have a lot of involvement and a lot of history. You seem caught not even in the middle, but at the edges.
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reader, beentheredonethat +, writes (11 October 2006):
 No dear...She SLEPT with him to get at you. If there has been a little business partner conceived...that is just a bonus for her. You have a child with this man and he's slipping it to his Ex????....either learn to live with her...or dump him because honey...She's in it for the long haul and has nothing to loose by getting him to father children. DNA is not important....where you want to live is important. Do you want to live with a guy who is still sleeping with his meal ticket? And No...He does not own a business. SHE owns a business...and she would be an idiot to TRANSFER the TITLE at all. (that is naive wishful thinking) He owns a girlfriend with a baby to support and a New baby on the way...and if it's not his....so what...she's gotten the point across to you that She can have him still...and you may think you own him but she's the bank and she's just sent you a little collection notice.
I am not being tough on you...please understand that. You are in a Horrible situation and there is no easy answer...and I am sure there is much you have not explained....but you must decide if you can live with all this drama....are you going to explain to your baby that his Little brother belongs to Daddy's What...um Ex---wife...current fling? What a mess for you he has created....Hope his Wham bam was worth it for him....because it sure has left two women in a pickle. Some men love cat fights...its a huge ego boost....boy he set the stage for a doozy. wham bam....thank you ma'ams.
I wish you the best luck in the world and more importantly I wish you the wisdom to find your way through this mine field. In my opinion do the words "Run Forrest!" mean anything to you?
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