He stayed at her house and his excuses were pretty weak. What's he really up to..any advice?

Need advice. Don't know if I am being cheated on, or if I am just in denial of the whole situation. My man and I have been together for over 3 years. We got pregnant early on in the relationship and unfortunately our daughter was stillborn at 36 weeks. Well after the birth, before I returned to work, we went out to eat. I was playing games on his cell phone and a text message came in saying "Call me, Please." Something just didnt sit well with me so I remembered the number and texted it from work the next day. It was a female, and she stated to me that he told her that I told him after we lost the baby that I didnt want to be with him anymore. I said no such thing. Well we talked and talked and finally she must have gotten tired of my questions because she was like just leave me alone, I dont want anything to do with him, you can have him. So he found out I contacted her and got upset that I didnt come to him first. ALL in all, the situation ended so I thought. Well this summer, we were talking about phones and how he turns his cell off when he is around me and so I didnt let him turn it off. Low and behold this same chick calls him phone not once but twice, and he says she just called to say hi and he didnt know if she wanted anything else. Well to top it off, my aunt got a call from a co-worker just checking on her and she told my aunt that she was a grandmother. My aunt said congrats, and the lady wasnt happy. She said her daughter got this no good man, with no job, who puts on suits and pretends and they caught him in their house, etc, etc. Low and behold, its my man. Well I presented him with this info and he said that the girl was raped and she needed a friend and the baby isnt his and he was at her house the night that he picked her up from the hospital and she asked him to stay until her parents got home. My question to him was why would u put yourself in a compromising situation with someone we have had previous problems with. Why would you stay at her house. My question is, I dont know if I believe him. I dont know if I can believe him. Something just doesnt seem right and doesnt feel right. I need advice!

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