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Anal sex with my lover is very painful.. what can I do to reduce this?

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Question - (11 October 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 October 2006)
A male , *ona writes:

I'm a male to female crossdresser and have homosexual relations with one of my boyfriend we are childhood friends and loves to be in touch with each other Sometimes he wants to f**k me in my ass and I allow him to do so but this ass fucking is very painful, please tell me what can I do to reduce this pain and will I suffer from any type of disease or problem as a after effect of this ass f**king.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2006):

Has he got a big penis,only sometimes if its too big it makes it painfull.Use plenty of lube and start off lightly with inserting the penis and then when you reach a comfortable level tell him thats far enough otherwise you will begin to feel discomfort.If your not expierenced in anal then it takes a while for you to become use to it.

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A female reader, Nikki866 +, writes (11 October 2006):

Nikki866 agony auntIs he using a condom? Unless you're very sure that you two are monogamous, that's the first issue. AIDS is not worth any amount of sexual pleasure (or in your case, pain!) ~ As far as how to make it more comfortable, have you tried to lay on your side with your legs up? That may decrease the pressure.... ask him to go slow. YOU need to be in charge of the entry. Stop means stop, and he may be just too anxious to 'get it in', not considering the pain factor you have. Use TONS of KY liquid jelly... that will help tremendously. Good luck!!

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