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writes: i am 13 and my boyfriend moved away he is coming back to visit me and wants to have sex i told him im not sure but he keeps asking me am i to young?? Reply to this Question
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reader, katzkitten  +, writes (15 October 2006):
 wow the fact your concidering this question says something in its self. if you have to ask whether you should then the answer if probably no, u shouldnt. just tell him straight or when it come to it jus say ur not in the mood i've used that excuse many a time and to tell ya the truth it works.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2006): Are you willing to give up school and support a baby if you get pregnant? That's the reality you have to take in to consideration if you're going to start having sex. I think it's best you wait until you're older, and are sure that the person is someone special enough to have you.
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reader, andrea23 +, writes (12 October 2006):
 yes sweetheart you are far to young & if you do go ahead & have sex with him you'll regret it in later life just the way i did. i 1st had sex when i was 14 i thought the boy i was with at the time was my begin all & end all, how wrong was i. you should save yourself until you're a bit older
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reader, Don_Navarro  +, writes (12 October 2006):
 Yes you are too young. If you have to ask a question like that it usually means you aren't ready in some way. All the best
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (11 October 2006):
 Yes, 13 is by far too young. He should really not be pressuring you this way. (Boys usually say they will break up with you if you don't, or that they love you, and that you should do it to prove that you love them too, but it is just a trick to get you to say "yes"!)
Take care, - Sex is by far overrated at your age - this happens to most girls in their teens. Go careful, just enjoy your innocence - you will never get that sweet time back!
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reader, Troubles +, writes (11 October 2006):
First of all yes 13 is way too young to be having sex, because you are not old enough to understand it properly and understand the circumstances that it could lead to. Your bfd obviously hasnt taken your feelings into consideration, as he should stop askin you as soon as you say no, but as he keeps on asking he's not respecting your feelings. By the sounds your not ready to have sex with him, otherwise you wouldnt be asking outher people whether to or not, and the first time should always be with that special person, when you are old enough and ready, not just because he wants sex ,so he can look good or for his repuation becuase it will leave you feeling very hurt and regretful. My advice to you is not to do this, tell your bfd NO your not ready, and if he still carrys on then end it with him. He doesnt sound like the right sort of person to be doing something that is this bigger deal with. Hope you take my thoughts into consideration, good luck.
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (11 October 2006):
 Yes your too young, i wouldnt worry about sex untill your 16 (legal age) and by the sounds of it your not atall ready for sex. Just tell him you dont want to, im guessing he's 13 aswell? Dont be pressured into it, dont do anything you dont want to, especially sex. Good luck
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