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I love this guy and now that he's dumped his gf..I thought we'd hook up! But he's playing mindgames..why is he doing this?

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Question - (11 October 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2006)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

hello i was just wonderin if yew could help yew see ive fallen really madley in love with this great boy and hes only pretty much just seen how much i love him after 1 year ! lol so he finally realised that he had feelings for me to so he dumped his girlfriend who lives in a diferent city to him by the way and i found out from his girlfriend he broke up with her for me and she really hates me (but i dont care cuz shes not a nice person :P) and now that he has done that i thought mabey somethin might happen with us but nothin has and i no its only been 2 days but still, plus he is really tryin to get me jelous he keeps askin his m8 annabel to hug him and she does and he looks to see if im lookin what is he doin im startin to get really confussed please help ta xxxxx

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A male reader, jack23 +, writes (12 October 2006):

jack23 agony auntHes obviously a jeliously freak. He wants to make u jelious so that he feels more wanted, and the more you react the more he will do it.

Im willing to be that if you done the same and flirted with another bloke, he'd get jelious too.

Try to look unaffected, and make out to him that you will see other people because he doesnt seem interested. He wont be able to cope with it and will try and get you to be with him then.

The less you are affected, can just walk away without a care in the world and move on like he doesnt matter the more interest he will pay.

Atleast thats my theory, good luck, would be nice to know what happens. :)

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A male reader, Abacadaba United Kingdom +, writes (11 October 2006):

Abacadaba agony auntHmm, im guessing he wants you to come up and say something, meaning hes scared of being the one to say anything first, talk to him about it, see what is said, thats the only way to find out really, boys TRY and play mind games, dont always work, i know because aot of my 'mind games' havent worked atall lol. But if i was in his possition id be doing it so you would come and say something. So yea, go and talk to him about it. Good Luck

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