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writes: hello, NEED HELPwell, me and my boyfriend have been broken up for the past month and it started off to be very hard to be apart, it was sleepless nights cryin myself to sleep,waking up dreadin the day and always trying to preoccupy myself. that went on for about 2 weeks and for the past week, i think im over him i dont know what this feeling is, i dont get upset no more, i dont care wat he does anymore or anything but i dotn know how its possible because we were together for about 1 year and an half, and i was hell in love with him, is this me getting used to being apart or did i never love him in the first place? i know i dont want to be with him anymore even if i was offered the opportunity because his just hurt me so much that i dont feel any emotion anymore, but i do miss him alot. His still on my mind. We are planning to see each other on our would be anniversary but i'm really scared that i'll fall back into bad habbits and fall for him agen... wat do you suggest i do? see him or not? and can you please tell me wat it is im feeling.
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reader, Aunt Audrey  +, writes (17 November 2006):
 Hi,
I don't think you feel the way you do because you never loved your ex, but because you have accepted that the relationship is over and have made your mind up that there is no going back. You have done well so far and I feel personally that if you have any doubts about how your feelings may change should you see him on your (would have been anniversary)I would stay at home, no point going back, you may end up hurt all over again, what's the point?
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2006): thats fantastic that ur feeling so carefree,when I broke up with my ex I was pretty obsessed for months.However Id advise you not to see him esp on ur anniversary as your old feelings may come back again and this would not be good it would just confuse u further and u may end up hurt.
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