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writes: Hey,Im 16 and have recently started full time work. I love it the staff are great and the job is never boring. One member of our staff stands out to me, I really like him. I've had crushes before but this time it feels different, alot stronger. I can't get him out of my head and if i see him for a second my face lights up without me even thinking. Im so shy and when i like someone I act like..well a prat! Just need some advice really..how could I hint to him that I like him? or should I not do that? I'm bad at flirting too, im always to nervous and don't know what would work best on guys. I dont want to mess anything up because I really like him a hell of a lot, more than any lads before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2006):
HI there,
I am im a similar sort of situation.I really fancy this girl i work with in the office, we flirt all the time, we share long glances, we whisper secret sayings across the office to each other. But i just can't bring myself to ask he out.
I know how you feel, you feel completely helpless, like your stuck in a rut, having to see the person you love every day, day in and day out and not being able to tell them your true feelings.
My advice would be to keep the flirting going like i am doing and just let that build up. It may take time but we will get there in the end, im sure of it.
Good luck x
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (18 November 2006):
 Hey,
well first off, you don't seem very worried that you may actually...
1.) start a relationship with a work colleague, often not a very good idea as any break ups could be embarrasing and work and social lives are usually wanted to be kept seperate.
2.) Be very embarresed if (or when) you do actually come onto him and he turns you down, this would make working with him very very difficult. Is he higher up position wise than you? this would be like falling in love with your teacher, he is repsected and has a very powerful position in the work place.
My advice to you would be to forget him. I'm all for love, but when the right man comes you won't feel unsure and so this can't be Mr Right for you, otherwise you'd never have a problem large enough to seek outside help with, right?
Just ask yourself, is he really worht all the trouble? Wondering what to do, trying to work with him if he says no, trying to work with him if he says yes! I mean, what would you talk about, you both would have had the same day!
hope this helped, even if it's not what you wanted to hear,
Phoebe xxXxx
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