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We flirt but I have asked her out, yet! Do you think she respects me more for holding out with her?

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Question - (17 November 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 17 November 2006)
A male United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Hi there,

I posted a question a couple of days ago, about the 31 year old male, who's flirting in the office with the 20 year old female.

Well the flirting is still going strong which i am more than happy with, still sharing loving glances, still whispering our little sayings to each other. We have shared the same saying for months now, and that is if we upset each other she says im sorry, and i say where from, and she whispers " FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART", And vice versa if i say something wrong. I know its easy to say yeh go for it with this girl, but i am finding it so so hard, we work so close together, and i get tremendous butterflies around her. The other night would have been my perfect chance i offered to give her a lift to the station as the girl she normally walks with was on leave. But did i do anything, no i diden't, we did share a long glance as she was getting out of the car but thats it. Do you think she respects me more for holding out with her?

Also i got an anonymous text on my mobile saying SOMEONE FANCIES YOU, and i coulden't reply to it, nothing to text back or to call, just the message. I knew it wasen't one of those premium things. Does any one know if it is now possible to send people you fancy anonymous love messages?

I would love to think it was from my office girl as our flirting has been so strong.

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A female reader, Cupid243 +, writes (17 November 2006):

You should go ahead and ask her out and see if she meets your expectations. Holding out is cute in the beginning but after a while she's going to start to think that you are not interested. Go ahead and ask her out! Clearly she's going to say yes. But be careful with office romances. You need to be sure that you both can remain professional if the relationship doesn't work out.

Good luck!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2006):

oh get a grip just ask her for a drink, it's not that big a deal! how long can you drag it out for? what's the worst that can happen? she might say no, but you only get one life and women respect confident men

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