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writes: i asked this girl out, she said it would ruin our friendship but i really like her so how should i ask her out again. Reply to this Question
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (12 January 2006):
 Some of the best relationships have been built from very close friendships, so rather than worrying about how to ask her out again you should be worrying about how to be a better friend to her. If I were you I would start by not pressuring her to see you as anything more than a friend, if she sees that you are there for her in the way she is ready for she may become more receptive to your request for a relationship later. If you continue to ask her out you may lose her as a friend because she will feel pressured by you, no one likes that.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (12 January 2006):
 Consider asking her out with a couple of your other friends, as a group.
She's already indicated that she doesn't see you as more than a friend at this time, so you should pay attention to that, and where necessary, read between the lines. (She might not be interested in dating you and might be trying not to hurt your feelings.)
Give it another try, but rather than asking her to go out with you, ask her if she'd like to hang out with you and some friends at a specific time and place. Something like a party.
If she's still not interested, I'm sorry, but you'll have to accept that sometime people we're interested in don't return the affection.
Good luck.
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