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writes: Mrs Confused..............I have been with my partner for 4 years and we got married 2 years ago, i thought i knew him well, but just before christmas i found naked pictures of "men" on the computer so i started deleting them, but every time i did a new would appear, i can`t bring myself to speak to him about it (probably because i`m scared of the reply), so could you please give me some advice on what i should do.
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reader, loni +, writes (12 January 2006):
You certainly have something to be worried about, but don't lie to yourself when the picture is right in YOUR face, confront him, and deal with this, I know it must be hard, but if he is gay he is getting something you can't EVER give him.
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (12 January 2006):
 Hiding from the problem will not make it go away. I know it will be hard to confront an issue like this but, if he is interested in men it is something you should be aware of as his wife. The best thing for everyone is to have this all out in the open, it may be no more than some weird pop-up or something that keeps getting in your computer, either way you need to know. Good luck.
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reader, *deadrainbowpixie* +, writes (12 January 2006):
 Hiya Mrs Confused. Firstly, you should talk to him! Im sure theres a reasonably explanation for this. If he says he "likes" looking at men, *dont* worry! If thats the case, that doesn't mean he's gay, or whatevers going through your mind at the moment. Supposing he's bisexual, or even curious about his sexuality? Would that be disasterous? If I found naked photos of men on my boyfriends computer, Id ask him about it... My boyfriend is bisexual, or bicurious, he has opened up a lot since being together, and I wouldnt mind if he wanted to look at photos of men on his computer, AS LONG as I could be with him while he is doing so! That might sound weird, but you'd get to know him better! You'd know what kind of things he likes... Just because he likes men, it DOESNT mean he thinks any less of you! He probably thinks you're the most beautiful person on the planet, and didnt mean to hurt you or make you wonder about him, cuz of those photos. Just talk to him :) I wish you the bestest of luck! xoxoxo
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