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writes: Well, this might take some explaining first. I had been seeing this girl years ago (4 to be exact), and I really messed things up. Basically to the point that I never saw or heard from her again, until last year near Christmas. This was huge for me, I hadn't stopped thinking about her since things happened. We hit it off like nothing had even happened, except the issue of her having a boyfriend, but I respected that entirely. We have been slowly hanging out more and more, especially since her boyfriend moved away and that has sort of faded. I want to tell her everything. How I feel about her, how I have always felt about her. But, is it too soon? She had been dating her previous for three years, I know that can't be easy for her to deal with. On the other hand, I don't want to lose my chance again. Just thinking of her drives me crazy.Should I spill my guts, or try and let things work out slowly?
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (12 January 2006):
I think you won't feel satisfied until you give it every chance you got! I say tell her how you feel. Because if you don't you will alays live with 'what ifs' and it will be exstremely hard to move on, knowing that there is the POSSIBILITY that it could of worked out.
Alternativly, you could suss out how commited she is to this relationship.
But in the end I say telling her how you feel is the best way to go. Even if she does no have them back, atleast you know you tried and can some how make peace with yourself and move on. Good luck :)
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