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writes: I'm realy confused! I'm going out with a guy that i think i love but lately i've been thinking about my ex . I've been dreaming about him and i cant stop thinking about him. should i risk my current relationship for my ex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2006): I feel exactly the same... I have told my new girlfriend I love her but I can't stop thinking about my ex. We split up because she was moody and we had little in common, even though we were together for over a year and had some good times. My new girl is funny and on my wavelength... she doesn't take life too seriously. But I recently saw a photo of my ex looking amazing since losing weight, and I've heard she is now seeing someone else, and it has triggered feelings of "What if". I know she has told her close friends that she still loves me and misses me too. I know it would be a waste of time getting back with her as it would probably end in failure again, but I can't stop thinking about her. My head is really screwed up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2006): Im in exactly the same position.im so confuesed and dont know what to do for the best.my ex tells me every day how much he wants me back and im still in love with him,but i dont want to ruin my chances with my current partner if things dont turn out with my ex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2006): I think your heart is definately telling you something right now.
How's it going to be if you become more seriously involved with your BF you are currently seeing? I'm suspecting it's going to get more confusing and emotionally draining for you. You said you "think you love this new guy." I'm sure you feel like most of us, that when you are with someone you want all of their Love and not just the idea of it.
I'm assumming there is a chance for you and your ex to reconcile. Have you thought about the reasons why you two split up to begin with?
Maybe the best thing for you, is to just take sometime to yourself for awhile and think all of these things through before making any major decisions of who to be with. Try and weigh the pro's and cons.
Good Luck!
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reader, Kated101 +, writes (12 January 2006):
A guy you 'think' you love? If you don't know for sure that you love him maybe you should be questioning that before you think about anyone else. Just look at him and think about the things you love about him and being with him. If you think it's worth losing those things then end it with him. Theres no need to cheat on him, just decide if you love him, then if you decide to end it you can try and make a go of things with your ex. It's completely up to you.
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