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writes: Hello. I am a 16 (almost 17) year old female, and I'm *really* self-conscious about my body. Not about weight, I'm reasonably happy with that, but it's things like my breasts, which I absolutely hate! I've tried to make myself feel better by looking at photos online of other womens breasts, but I still think mine are ugly :( My left breast is slightly smaller than my right, and my nipples are rather puffy. I read that a lot of teenagers are like this, but I don't like it, also, I hate the shape of them, and I'm scared my boyfriend of 19 months will think they're horrible when he sees them (he hasn't yet). I don't know what to do. I just wondered if you can give me your opinions on this... and if you're male, do you think men, like yourself, care if women's breasts aren't "perfect"? Thank you! xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2006): What's your definition of perfect breasts though? I sure don't know!
Unless they are really bizarre and deformed, I wouldn't worry at all. Most girls breasts are slightly different in shape, and puffy nipples are great! ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2006): Women should not worry about the size or shape of thier breasts, Natural is best , the female form can be enjoyed in all shapes and sizes, be happy with yourself and it will relfect on others around you.
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reader, [email address blocked] +, writes (13 January 2006):
Well if there is something wrong with them you want to know so make sure. Then if need be get surgery go to your mom and confide if shes the type to help. If not do it yourself your young and theres no reason to self conscious about this the rest of your life or just ask a guy he will tell you
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2006): If he's anything like my husband it will matter. Although he might not say anything just watch him when you go down the street checking out other racks
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reader, purrfectionist84 +, writes (12 January 2006):
 There's no need to get yourself concerned. Your boyfriend hasn't even seen them yet, and you're already worried that he won't like them. Let him make that judgment for himself!
No woman has "perfect" breasts. Some of us feel that our breasts are too small, some too large, some too droopy, some too asymmetrical... Whatever the case, we're all unique specimens, so there can't really be such a thing as "perfect" breasts, now can there?
I'm certain that your boyfriend will love your body because he seems to truly care about you and to accept you for who you are. If he were concerned that your body wouldn't be attractive to him, and that's all he cared about, then he certainly wouldn't have gone 19 months without seeing you naked. He's in the relationship for much more than your body. You have nothing to worry about.
You're perfect just the way you are, and I'm sure that he will see that and appreciate it.
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