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writes: Why are guys so fickle? This guy I didn't even know at school (I’m 16) sought me out and started talking to me on instant message. We kind of hit it off and he came over and hung out. All his friends said he liked me. Then he started never being on the computer and I never saw him much at school, not that I did much before anyways. When I DID see him at school, he would smile and act like he liked me. Slowly he started being back on the computer, but he'd never IM me first. I was scared to ask him if he wanted to hang out again cuz it just didn't seem the same. I heard this other girl liked him, but I didn't think he would like her as a girlfriend because she cheated on her last boyfriend and that happened to him and it took him like forever to get over it. But I have heard he has hung out with her, although I don't know if it was just as a friend thing. I don't know what I did wrong to make him not like me. I'm kind of quiet, and I confessed to him that he makes me nervous. Do you think he thinks I'm weird and that why he'd rather hang with a girl who's more outgoing? Everyone is always saying I'm so pretty, but I never seem to be able to get any guys. (and I'm a nice person, I don't act all stuck up, I don't even think I'm that great, and I am way too shy). Why do guys do things like that, they get you all interested and then just back off and disappear?
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reader, Kated101 +, writes (12 January 2006):
You said it yourself...guys are fickle...especially teenage guys. Forget about him. However, if you really want him bad, just remember that boys always want what they cant have. Act like you never even knew he existed and then see what happens, always worked for me when I was young. Good Luck x
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