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writes:I met this guy on a dating site about a month ago. We have been talking ever since, and I really like him. The problem is I think he just thinks of me as a friend. Like, the other day he was complaining to me about how when he goes to the bars and the girls that go there. It's kind of hard to explain, but it just seemed like he was asking me for advice to pick up girls. Of course, I was caught off guard. Basically I want to know if I should (next time I talk to him) ask him what he thinks of me. Should I ask him if he thinks of me as a friend or a possible gf? Thanks, Lost in CA Reply to this Question
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reader, Chloe The Genius +, writes (13 January 2006):
Well, why don't you ask him what he think of you two as, and if he thinks your are just friends tell him how YOU feel.
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reader, purrfectionist84 +, writes (12 January 2006):
 Yep, you should definitely ask him. He might be complaining to you about the girls at the bars because he wants to drop the hint that he's just not meeting anyone he likes out there and that he is still available. Maybe it's YOU he wants, and not your advice! But you'll never know unless you ask!
Good luck!
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reader, Kated101 +, writes (12 January 2006):
Definatley ask him, it's the only way. Just bring it up casually in conversation. If you're worried that you'll be embarassed about it; if he says no just go "oh no no I was just making sure incase you had the wrong idea" ha pretty sneaky eh? ;o) good luck x
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