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writes: Myself and my longterm girlfriend are on a break at the moment (she asked for the break). It has been going on for a little short of two weeks now. I met up for a chat on Monday and we ended up in my apartment kissing on the couch. I suggested jokingly that we should kiss but she took me up on it. We met up the next day again (my idea) and we ended up with me rubbing her feet on the couch. We met up again yesterday where she helped me to paint the walls of my apartment (she took the day off college to help me). What is going on here, it feels very weird?
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reader, ozwald +, writes (14 January 2006):
ozwald is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe is definetely not seeing other men, thats not my ego speaking but she is'nt promiscious. Anytime i mention getting back together she says she feels trapped.
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reader, Kated101 +, writes (12 January 2006):
I know this isn't what you want to hear but I'm just curious if there's other guys in her life? Could she have askd for a break because although she want the love and affection you give her, she doesn't want to be held responsible if she happens to stray? I say just ask her to be honest with you about why she wanted the break and tell her you want it either one way or the other because I know i couldnt cope with not knowing. Good Luck x
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reader, purrfectionist84 +, writes (12 January 2006):
 It sounds like she isn't sure what she wants. Ask her if this feels weird to her, too, and if she's sure that she wants a break from the relationship. Point out that you respect her decision, either way, but that her actions aren't exactly congruent with her words.
Perhaps what she really wants, in lieu of a complete break, is for the two of you to spend slightly less time together. She might have felt like the relationship was getting a little boring before, and that your time together will be more precious if it is spread out.
On the other hand, the break might have woken her up to the fact that she doesn't exactly like spending time away from you, even if it's just for two weeks, and that you have a much more important role in her life than she previously thought.
Good luck. I hope that you get everything sorted out.
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