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writes: HiI am a 27yr old married mother of 3 young children. The thing is I fell in love with a close friend of mine two years ago during that time she almost destroyed me and my family by stealing my personal docments for id fraud and also taking various things like money jewelry and my equestrian equipment(only found out 3mnths ago) I do hate her for doing that to me and feel very low and totally used and dumped i do actually think she's a wicked person with no morals or conscience.Yet the problem is i still love her very much my heart feels empty without her even though i live with my kids and husband that i love very much. i still think about her all the time and i constantly wish and pray that i can turn back time and have her back. and i get butterflys in stomach and really get an adrenalin rush with the prospect of seeing and talking to her again.i have to stay away because of my family.She as far as i know doesnt give a toss about me or even cares so why do i feel like an abandonded puppy when its me that is the victim here?i dont understand and wish i could move on.I know its over and i will NEVER FORGIVE OR FORGET what she did and how much she hurt me but i can't get on with my life as i have such strong feelings for her still.
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (12 January 2006):
 Because you are the one whose feelings have been hurt. If somebody punches somebody else then the person who gets hit is the one who is bruised and hurt. I would say that is what we are dealing with here, a wound that hasnt totally healed yet. You only found out 3 mnths ago and that is a relatively short time ago when it comes to emotional wounds of this depth.
Give yourself time to heal. Don't expect it to heal over night and be harsh on yourself when it doesn't. You are obviously a good person who has been take for a ride. In your husband and your kids you have something positive to focus on while you are healing. Hope that helps :)
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