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| | *o_Very_Confused's profile:I've got the life experience to be wise for others, not so wise for myself. A degree in psych doesn't hurt either. So when I respond to people while I may just give advice, I'm more inclined to ask you questions that make you think and make you HURT and figure out what to do....
Choices I make are made on years of experience and may not be the best choices for YOU but what I do and what I advise may be two different things. Like I've said I KNOW what's the BEST thing to do and do not always choose to do what's BEST for me.
My primary interests include age gap relationships where the woman is older than the man... I am 13 years older than my future husband... I am also currently very interested in 12 step programs and addiction and recovery
and Long distance relationships...
I also understand alternative lifestyles as I was a "swinger" in my last marriage and I am a bisexual woman although currently I am just with my one male partner by choice...
NEVER STAY WHERE YOU ARE UNHAPPY NO MATTER WHAT. DO not make the same mistakes I made.
Rules:
IF YOU HAVE AN UNEASY FEELING IT'S FOR A GOOD REASON.. listen to that little voice
NEVER EVER trust a liar. IF they lied once, they could lie again. IF you dont' trust them there's a reason for it. LISTEN to it.
IF you have to ASK if you should leave... just do it.
We don't know WHY someone did something... only why WE would do it... so you have to ASK THEM.
IF you are afraid to ASK your PARTNER anything.. it's not a good relationship and you should probably end it.
IF he only calls when he's horny at 2 am you are a booty call nothing more....
Old cliches:
Women need a reason to have sex; men just need a place
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15 year age gap is my concern
Q. I met this guy. He is now 56 and I am 41. Both of us have never been married and no children. He has asked me for a commitment to a relationship and I think he will look for marriage later. This is not a short term relationship. He is a smart,...
A. 27 September 2014: At 56 he's slowing down and wanting to retire... kids make that impossible.
also how fair is it to a child to have a parent old enough to be the grandparent...
kids make a big difference.... does he even WANT a child now?... (read in full...)
15 year age gap is my concern
Q. I met this guy. He is now 56 and I am 41. Both of us have never been married and no children. He has asked me for a commitment to a relationship and I think he will look for marriage later. This is not a short term relationship. He is a smart,...
A. 13 August 2014: Of course your concerns are valid.
and you need to express these concerns to him.
Usually it's the older partner that is concerned that the younger partner is with them and will be cheated out of a full experience. I know I worry about lea... (read in full...)
I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!
Q. My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...
A. 30 July 2014: It's a tough struggle OP but keep walking the walk.
ONE day you will wake up and he will not be the first thing on your mind.
and then slowly day by day you won't even realize it... till one day you don't think about him till you are g... (read in full...)
Should I break off my engagement to my LDR? Concerned about so many issues.
Q. Should I break off my engagement? I'm engaged and I love my fiance-he has a lot of wonderful qualities-honest, loving, caring, etc. I do feel like I am taking on perhaps too much baggage to be with him and I am concerned about how our future w...
A. 17 July 2014: I have to question HOW they got a divorce if they still own property together... that's not a standard thing so there has to be some paperwork there.
if she OWNS the house then ONLY her name is on the DEED and SHE can do what she wants... HE has n... (read in full...)
I'm absolutely miserable at my job, what should I do when there are no tasks needing doing?
Q. I've been working a 9-5 summer internship/job for the summer - I do get paid, but on the downside, I'm absolutely miserable. I ask my supervisors for work, but they really don't have anything for me to do. When they give me work, I accomplish it, ...
A. 17 July 2014: Here we have a huge INTRANET with learning modules that folks can do any time they want and have time..
is there any online learning you could do?
If there is someone who does the job you think you want can you ask to shadow them?
... (read in full...)
I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!
Q. My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...
A. 17 July 2014: I had a dream last night too.. that i did my own nails.
NEITHER YOUR DREAM OR MINE is coming true.
hang in there OP... you are at the absolute worst time of the break up.... you need to get over this hump. I am betting the weekend will suc... (read in full...)
They say I would have been rocked by a tree stump. Do they have a point?
Q. OK, I had sex with a new boyfriend recently. It was our first date and he took me to the highest heaven. My friends were not as impressed. They told me my reaction was based on circumstances and looks, ie it was my first time after 23 years of ...
A. 16 July 2014: I love all my other aunties... but I sort of disagree with all of them.
First of all my girlfriends and all all discuss our sex lives. I have a couple of very close friends that we will talk details and intimate things. we've been friends... (read in full...)
I'm pretty sure my boyfriend is cheating. Do I confront him?
Q. I think my boyfriend is cheated on me?For the last week or two ive been having over time and my boyfriend doesnt want me to really go to his baseball games as much anymore and when he gets off work earlier than me hes always out somewhere one day I ...
A. 16 July 2014: how about if you make him pay half the bills instead so he can't afford the girl on the side and you...
then he will move out and you won't have to know...... (read in full...)
How to control rage issues, that have cost me my marriage?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles. I have a big problem and was wondering if anyone can refer me to some good websites, or help me to find information on this. Basically, my husband and I got in a fight, and I hit him. This has happened before, and I went to ...
A. 16 July 2014: I fully applaud your self-awareness and attempt at counseling.
I was in counseling on and off from age 9 through adulthood with various counselors... some more helpful than others.
Once I found one that REALLY understood my issues (ADHD mos... (read in full...)
Was I right to throw the creep out?
Q. When your kids hate the guy you are dating....watch out. No telling what they will do. I had been seeing a fellow for about 6 months or so, and my two girls could not stand him. He was trying to play the concerned parent part. He never lived in...
A. 16 July 2014: So you married the young guy your kids picked out for you and 22 years later you are asking if you did the right thing?
why is this now a concern?... (read in full...)
Meeting my LDR boyfriend's family for the first time. Does this mean that he's thinking long term with me, or conceptualizing marriage?
Q. Hi Dear Cupiders, I've been involved in a long distance relationship (LDR) with my boyfriend of 10 months. I'm African American and he's Nigerian. We're both committed and love each other dearly. After the multiple visits to and from NYC and Atl...
A. 16 July 2014: It might mean that. It might mean that he's just taking advantage of his mom being more local so you can meet her and since he lives in the USA now he's becoming more Americanized.
Ask him... "so honey what does my meeting your mom MEAN for us ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex to keep my boyfriend?
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years now, (I am -9) and I love him to pieces. We sleep over at each other's all the time and it's all been perfectly fine. Then one night we were at his and he said "my parents wont be home until ...
A. 16 July 2014: to the anonymous female poster who said:
"Hmmm I am very surprised to see so many people telling you to just "go for it". "
I see ONE person who posted prior to you saying that.
the others (myself included) have told the OP NOT to do s... (read in full...)
Should I break off my engagement to my LDR? Concerned about so many issues.
Q. Should I break off my engagement? I'm engaged and I love my fiance-he has a lot of wonderful qualities-honest, loving, caring, etc. I do feel like I am taking on perhaps too much baggage to be with him and I am concerned about how our future w...
A. 15 July 2014: you are correct you cannot love a man or base the relationship on his potential. you will be disappointed.
you say he's learning his CS amount... did his marriage break up because you two met online or something? is his divorce final?
... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my husband hiding his impotency!
Q. after 20yrs of marriage i now know my husband had an impotency problem he hid it from me making excuses all the time, i beleived his excuse----how to deal with this please tell me how to deal with this...
A. 15 July 2014: not a lot to go on here.
choices:
take a lover WITH PERMISSION of your husband
divorce him
you've lived with it for 20 years, keep living with it.
Not sure what else we can say or do to help.... (read in full...)
Should I have sex to keep my boyfriend?
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 years now, (I am -9) and I love him to pieces. We sleep over at each other's all the time and it's all been perfectly fine. Then one night we were at his and he said "my parents wont be home until ...
A. 15 July 2014: you are 19 and have been dating him for 5 years...
when do you think you will be ready for sex?
what is holding you back?
no do not have sex just to please someone but it's not IMO natural for an adult with a willing partner to not wa... (read in full...)
We had an amazing weekend connection but now I haven't heard from him. Do I call?
Q. I met this really good looking guy at a friends BBQ last weekend. We hit it off instantly and chatted for hours. We ended the night by kissing. We live in different states and he spoke of me visiting him. We even talked about sex and how he wasn't ...
A. 15 July 2014: in the heat of the moment it sounded good...
in the bright light of day on the way home it no longer sounded like a good plan...
I don't think he lied.
I think he got caught up in "what might be" and was not thinking all that clearl... (read in full...)
Was she reasonable to accuse me of emotional cheating?
Q. Here we go on the merry-go-round once again. Our relationship started to go down hill. I had been married before, and I admit to cheating, so I vowed not to make that same mistake again. So when I met V, I took my time and listened, when she said...
A. 15 July 2014: Crawldaddy,
Men often do not understand emotional cheating. As a woman I would rather my guy physically cheat on me than emotionally any day of the week. It doesn’t make sense to some but it’s how I feel. Just like how YOU feel is that you... (read in full...)
He doesn't realize that the way he was treating me is wrong!
Q. I broke up with my ex a few weeks ago. We were together for two years. He is a bit of a narcissist, didn't seem to know he was. Lied to me about a lot of things such as: having feelings for an ex, he was on sex sites, masturbated to porn four times ...
A. 14 July 2014: I think once you realize he was not DOING THIS TO YOU but rather that's just the way it is and his behavior was NOT personal you will cope better.
Get a copy of the book "A Fine Romance" by Judith Sills. It will help you put a post mortem o... (read in full...)
He loves his hobby but there is no time for me.
Q. I have been dating a very kind and warm guy of 35 for nearly a year. He works from home and is also totally renovating his house all the way through. He has lived with women but never had a family. My children are grown up. When we first met I c...
A. 14 July 2014: If you can't live in a home that's being renovated and that's how he makes his living, then you will never have much time with him... flipping a home is time and labor intensive. and it never stops.
Since you have a different idea of what life... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is physically abusive. Part of me wants to leave him but I also know he would never truly hurt me
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years, and we recently moved in together. He is usually extremely sweet and caring. But sometime he has bouts of anger that make me extremely uncomfortable. I can honestly say he'd never hit me, bu...
A. 14 July 2014:
OP listen to me.... VERY carefully... PLEASE.
You need to leave. I live a life like yours... You won't leave... you don't make him sound worse than he is you actually are trying to make an abusive man sound better than he is.
If y... (read in full...)
Is it time to call quits on my relationship?
Q. Is it time to call quits on my relationship? I've been with my boyfriend for close to five years. We've had some amazing times together but the cons have been building up to boiling point lately. I've never liked how disrespectfully he speak...
A. 14 July 2014: How he treats his family is how he will treat you in the long run.
I vote for RUN AWAY...... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wont cooperate and help work things out!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. Lately I feel like he's been turning into a complete asshole and I feel like I'm just being tossed aside. It first started when I had asked him to spend 4th of July weekend with me from Thursday ...
A. 14 July 2014: I'm so sorry to be the bearer of bad news hon, but he's just not that into you.
STOP rowing this relationship boat... he's got at least one girl on the side and he's lying to you (badly I might add) to try to cover it up.
Do not call him..... (read in full...)
I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!
Q. My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...
A. 14 July 2014: Don't even look at the texts.. just delete them without reading them...
he's really an idiot... and not worth your time.
stay strong.... (read in full...)
Going the distance. Can love become friendship?
Q. Our 3-month relationship has been going great. It's been rather serious, too — given that I've met his mother on several occasions, such as dinner and coffee. But in a month I will go to France on exchange and he will go to England for Masters. ...
A. 14 July 2014: it's really hard to go from lovers to friends because of distance...
I doubt you will feel great the first time you realize that he's set his eye on a new girl.... and the same goes for him....
I would think that leaving it the way it i... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me to still be upset about this one night occurrence?
Q. A few months ago, my boyfriend of 5 years went out with some friends before his best friends military deployment. Rather than going to a bar, as he told me, the guys instead went to a strip club. My boyfriend was the designated driver for the night, ...
A. 14 July 2014: it's not wrong to have feelings. they are your feelings and nothing can stop you from feeling what you feel.
Sadly you are correct that your feelings stem from lack of self-esteem and insecurity. That's what prompts the Jealousy.
... (read in full...)
I get the silent treatment every time we have an argument!
Q. I have been in a long distance relationship with a very passive aggressive man. We've been together for 2 years. We had a small argument 2 weeks ago, and i did apologize to him the next day telling him that i'm going through a lot of stress l...
A. 14 July 2014: I'm sorry but it's time to end this "pretend relationship"
if adults after two years of LDR cannot manage to become a close distance relationship, there is not much going on that an be salvaged.
his disappearing for days and weeks on end is... (read in full...)
Has he left me?
Q. my boyfriend and I have been together for nine years. it is a long distance relationship but we have managed to make it work. recently he had to go to another country to visit his family. he told me how long he would be there for and when he is ...
A. 14 July 2014: I'm sorry OP but ANY relationship that is LDR for longer than 2-3 years and the partners are not married and apart for work reasons only (deployment) seems to me to be NOT much of a relationship.
THE GOAL of an LDR is to NOT be LDR.... since af... (read in full...)
How long to withold sex in a LDR when you meet your significant other?
Q. I just met a guy through a mutual friend here in the states that I really like but he lives in Europe. We have been chatting everyday both on the phone and all other messaging means. He really likes me as a matter of face he loves me and claims I am ...
A. 11 July 2014: OP do you see in the span of the original post and two answers you have gone from NOT having SEX at all until marriage till not even sure you can wait 3 visits with him before you have sex.
I think you are kidding yourself that you will "withhol... (read in full...)
Chatting online for a month and he wants me to pay his phone bill so we can talk
Q. I met this guy in a dating website about a month ago and he asked me to pay his phone bill. It makes me a little uncomfortable because I don't know if he is using me. He says he likes me a lot and has plans to come visit me in 3 weeks (lives 7 hours ...
A. 11 July 2014: you can offer to video chat on skype on the computer... it's free. I will bet that once that offer is made he will have an excuse as to why that's not a good option. Stand firm and do not pay the bill.
I would NOT pay his bill even if you meet... (read in full...)
Is it possible to gain back trust once it's lost? What if the person is a repeat "white liar"?
Q. I will keep this question as simple as possible. Is it possible to gain trust back once it's lost? How? Has anyone ever dated/married someone who told numerous "white lies" but never cheated or lied about something extreme? And lastly, if ...
A. 10 July 2014: Taking the blame for something does NOT negate the bad behavior.
you are falling into the the trap of letting him get away with it because
a. he takes responsibility
and
b. maybe it's not his fault, maybe it's due to childhood trauma.
... (read in full...)
I was afraid for my life but now I'm known as a snitch
Q. So am I a snitch? I've now got the reputation of a snitch and people say I acted like a "white girl". This was a break and we were in the classroom, with no teacher. My friend and this girl were having a verbal fight about throwing paper at ...
A. 10 July 2014: Franny I am very proud of you for telling! That's a scary thing to do and I would have told too even as an adult.. someone who needs 4 people to hold her back has anger issues and control issues.
You were not feeling safe and you told an adult an... (read in full...)
I have an embarrassing medical problem and I don't know how to tell my parents!
Q. I have a problem at the moment and I don't know what to do. Lately my vulva has become very itchy and sore and I really want to tell my parents but I am too embarrassed and afraid to do it. Its making me cry at night because I'm so worried but I'm ...
A. 10 July 2014: YOU should be proud of yourself! and kudos to mom for getting you in so quickly.
I am so very glad to hear you told mom and she took the right action quickly.
keep us posted if you want OP...
best of luck to you.... (read in full...)
I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!
Q. My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...
A. 10 July 2014: why have you not blocked him from contacting you?... (read in full...)
He said he was "taking a step back" ... what did he mean?
Q. I'm having a hard time dealing with a break up right now. The guy I was dating have been liking each other since we were young but went separate ways after high school. About seven months ago, we got back in touch and rekindle the flame we had. I ...
A. 10 July 2014: I'm sure he was embarrassed to have you see him cry and have his stuff taken away.
I am not sure what he means by "taking a step back" but what it means for you is that you back off and let him be.
IF and WHEN he is ready he knows where... (read in full...)
Is it possible to gain back trust once it's lost? What if the person is a repeat "white liar"?
Q. I will keep this question as simple as possible. Is it possible to gain trust back once it's lost? How? Has anyone ever dated/married someone who told numerous "white lies" but never cheated or lied about something extreme? And lastly, if ...
A. 10 July 2014: the only way that trust once broken can be rebuilt is if the person you no longer trust becomes trustworthy in your eyes based on THEIR current behavior.
why he lies is of no consequence.
the fact that he does and can lie and thinks it's acce... (read in full...)
We are engaged and I'm worried about his lack of ambition.
Q. I am concerned over his apparent lack of ambition. I am engaged to be married next Fall. My fiance has a lot of wonderful qualities, and I love him very much. However, I am very concerned about how well he and I will fare financially and ...
A. 10 July 2014: I'm an IT specialist and while I've studied for the exams I do not take them as my agency will not pay for me to take them.
It's a. very expensive to take them and b. you don't always pass they are very tough tests.
that aside, I th... (read in full...)
Should I shave my beard for my friend's wedding?
Q. I have my friend's wedding to go to in a couple of weeks and I am debating whether or not to shave.. I have had a beard for the last 10 months and have grown fond of it, it is part of me now I feel. I do keep it 'trimmed' but it is still probably...
A. 10 July 2014: If you are not in the wedding and/or your friend has not asked you to shave, then I would not shave if you don't want to.
... (read in full...)
15 year age gap is my concern
Q. I met this guy. He is now 56 and I am 41. Both of us have never been married and no children. He has asked me for a commitment to a relationship and I think he will look for marriage later. This is not a short term relationship. He is a smart,...
A. 10 July 2014: life is a crapshoot.
My mom died at 58.
My dad will be 80 this year and still plays golf 3 times a week and works out daily and travels extensively with his current partner.
I could die next week. My husband could die next week or get s... (read in full...)
My boyfriend frequently misplaces things and forgets pretty much everything. Do you think he has ADD?
Q. Is it ADD? My boyfriend of 16 months I think has ADD. These are the things that I am noticing and honestly I don't now how to go on despite the fact that he is a very nice man. 1.he basically can't answer any of my questions. Either he doe...
A. 10 July 2014: Well it could be. I have ADHD-combined so both the hyper and the distraction.. such fun.
The only way to know for sure is to have a professional evaluate him.
there is a test called the TOVA test... Test of Variable Attention and that'... (read in full...)
I am adopting a mixed race child, how do I style and manage afro hair? I don't want the agency to think I'm unfit.
Q. Hello all I have no family or friends to turn to about this, so I was hoping some of you might be able to help me. I'm a white woman from an entirely white family. I've been through the adoption process and had said that I didn't mind what skin c...
A. 10 July 2014: I doubt that an afro is the way to go (here that's a hairstyle from the 70s)
I googled Hair care for bi-racial babies
and there are tons of hits
this was the first one;
http://www.babycenter.com/400... (read in full...)
I have an embarrassing medical problem and I don't know how to tell my parents!
Q. I have a problem at the moment and I don't know what to do. Lately my vulva has become very itchy and sore and I really want to tell my parents but I am too embarrassed and afraid to do it. Its making me cry at night because I'm so worried but I'm ...
A. 10 July 2014: Honey it sounds like a simple yeast infection.
they are not sexually transmitted even babies can get them and in your mouth it's call THRUSH...
Your mom has probably had them before (most women get vaginal yeast infections at least ... (read in full...)
How long to withold sex in a LDR when you meet your significant other?
Q. I just met a guy through a mutual friend here in the states that I really like but he lives in Europe. We have been chatting everyday both on the phone and all other messaging means. He really likes me as a matter of face he loves me and claims I am ...
A. 10 July 2014: OP for you I would strongly urge you to go with at least 3 long visits before you engage in sexual activity.
IF he tries to pressure you into activity and you are not ready, realize this means that his personality is such that he will probabl... (read in full...)
How to prove to my girlfriend I will not walk out on her and our baby?
Q. I'm 40 and my girlfriend is 20 and we are together for the past seven months. We met online and dated for 8 weeks before we decided to become a couple. I never thought I could connect with someone her age nor ever have a relationship, but she is ...
A. 9 July 2014: keep after her to be with her... do NOT give up... send her letters telling her how you feel. call her... ask her parents what they suggest...
MARRY HER!
give her time to adjust to these big huge changes that are happening way too fast for her... (read in full...)
He only put the tip in. Am I still a virgin?
Q. I don't know if I'm a virgin or not.. Help? I was with him and he kept fingering me and tryed to make it easier for him to get it in.. Well, when he tryed to put it in It definitely hurt. He told me he only got the tip.in and that's all.. But I ...
A. 9 July 2014: NOT.... you lost your virginity ... (read in full...)
How long to withold sex in a LDR when you meet your significant other?
Q. I just met a guy through a mutual friend here in the states that I really like but he lives in Europe. We have been chatting everyday both on the phone and all other messaging means. He really likes me as a matter of face he loves me and claims I am ...
A. 9 July 2014: I've done LDRs but I am very open sexually and never wanted to wait. My husband and I when we were LDR the first two visits were not very sexual... and I was confused.
He's just not got a high drive... Now I know better.
I realize you a... (read in full...)
15 year age gap is my concern
Q. I met this guy. He is now 56 and I am 41. Both of us have never been married and no children. He has asked me for a commitment to a relationship and I think he will look for marriage later. This is not a short term relationship. He is a smart,...
A. 9 July 2014: If you are going to end it (and to be honest I would not end it if I were you) then do it soon.
just say "I'm sorry but I am not comfortable with the age difference"\
I understand your concerns, I am at 54, 13 yrs older than my husban... (read in full...)
I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!
Q. My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...
A. 8 July 2014: Sadly you should be 12 days no contact since that's when you broke up.
YOUR feelings of up and down and back and forth are normal.
stay strong and just say NO to him.
time heals... 12 days is not a lot of time... give it 4 more weeks ... (read in full...)
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