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writes:When your kids hate the guy you are dating....watch out. No telling what they will do. I had been seeing a fellow for about 6 months or so, and my two girls could not stand him. He was trying to play the concerned parent part. He never lived in my home, and he never spent a night either. But if my girls and I had a disagreement (and as with teens , there were many) he would use his almighty education to try to help get though it.This only made it worse. And I would turn on him, for butting in. Now my girls were very popular in the neighborhood, and I babysat most of the children , whose parents worked the late shift. So all the teens would hang out at our house. This was after i pulled 8 hours at my daytime job. So to stay awake I would play cards with the kids . One day in wondered a tall young man , who I had noticed a few times outside with the crowd of kids. We talked and played a few games of Spades, and out of the blue a couple of days later he sais to me. " I am not ready to get involved with anyone yet, I just broke uo with my girlfriend" . I was confused. I asked him what he meant. He said, my girls had told him, that I wanted to go out with him! I was so shocked! I could have crawled under the table! He had to be years younger than me. I couldn't help but laugh, and that only hurt his feeling. I explained to him , that they didn't like my boyfriend and was trying to get rid of him. We laughed about it and went on to play cards. Well after that, the guy (his Name is 'D') was coming by every night to play cards. And my boyfriend was getting a little annoyed to say the least. But you know what, I was seeing just how he was trying to control me, and one night he came in and told him he had to leave because he was tired of him hanging out at my place all the time. At that point , I lost it. I told my boyfriend if anyone was going to leave , it was gonna be HIM! How dare him , come in MY HOME and TELL MY COMPANY to get out. AND WHILE HE WAS AT IT he could take all the CHEAP ***T he ever bought me with him. Now to make a long story short. It is 22 years later . He and I will be married 18 years this May 5, 2014. Was I wrong to throw the creep out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2014): And they say women don't hold on to old issues.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 July 2014):
 Yeah, why are you asking this question 22 years later? I don't get it.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (16 July 2014):
 So you married the young guy your kids picked out for you and 22 years later you are asking if you did the right thing?
why is this now a concern?
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reader, Abella +, writes (16 July 2014):
 Does this mean that you are still with that same man you married 18 years ago?
Or are you regretting losing that man all those years ago?
On reading your question I just was bit confused by what you maybe did OR did not regret. Can you enlighten please?
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