Religious differences. Parental interference. I love him so much and I know he loves me too. What do I do!?
Q. I'm in love with my guy friend who has been brought up in one religion and me in another religion. I have started to question my beliefs about 2 years ago... now I identify as agnostic. A few months ago I told my parents about my love for my frie...
A. 14 August 2012: I'm sorry - but not surprised - to hear that you and he have parted ways....
I hope that YOU will keep your head and chin up and continue in your life, remembering that YOU are a special, warm and desireable woman....and that there really IS some ... (read in full...)
I feel guilty about going on holiday with my female friend!
Q. hi, i have been with my partner for five years we have just come back from vacation abroad (greece) i wanted to go on holiday in 5 weeks time to spain with my best girlfriend also. The thing is he's not happy about it and he says I'm being selfis...
A. 4 August 2012: REady Honeypie's reply - again and again - until you realize that that is the best advice you're going to get.
Then.... go on your holiday with your G/F ... and if B/F doesn't like it, too bad!!!!!... (read in full...)
How do I write good text messages and avoid texting too much?
Q. Hi How do I write good text messages and avoid texting too much? I met a really nice french girl, beautiful, smart and very sincere. I asked her out and she agreed, but later she texted me saying she can't make it but definitely another day. ...
A. 4 August 2012: I think you're doing just the right thing....... (read in full...)
Does my b/f want a threesome? He lets his friends hit on me!
Q. Lately my bf of 4yrs has been letting his friends hit on me. They will do it right in front of him and he just smirks. They say some inappropriate things most of the time. Then just yesterday i was with my bf and his bff and his best friend would ...
A. 4 August 2012: I vote for "leave him".... he and his "friends" sound like creeps and no self-respecting girl (YOU!) should have to put up with that demeaning environment....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
Why does he act like he wants to meet me, pick me up and put me down like a doll he wants only sometimes?
Q. Hello Agony Aunts/Uncles, I have a problem with the person I'm currently 'seeing' if you can call it that. Basically for the past two/three months or so I've been talking to a guy pretty consistently that I met online, he's all up for phoning me, ...
A. 4 August 2012: You've "hit the nail on the head" relative to what this cad is all about. Stay away from him... and you'll NEVER regret it.....
Good luck...... (read in full...)
why is he doing all this when he is married and should only be getting his daughter and wife things?
Q. my ex and i have been broken up 4 months, we was together 16 months and had a daughter. he married the girl he had been dating fora month they have been married a month. he says that he is over me and that he loves his wife. but when he's around m...
A. 4 August 2012: Ironically, this cad who spawned with you is now experiencing a bit of regret and remorse at the woeful manner in which he handled things between the two of you. It's even WORSE if he's not getting enough s*x with his new bride....but tha... (read in full...)
Everything he told me is a lie!
Q. I met a guy 7 months ago on a social networking site. He's younger than me by 5 years. We talk all the time, we have times where we lose contact. Which is usually when make plans to meet up and he flakes and leaves me hanging. Despite him doing ...
A. 4 August 2012: Maybe he's "shaky" about seeing you because he can't find a way to fit that in to his other life - the one with a wife and children - without being questioned (and, maybe, challenged) about it?????
Men who have something to hide make lousy pa... (read in full...)
I just hate it because I feel like I found my dream girl, but she has a bratty daughter! advice please?
Q. i met an amazing girl a few months ago. hit it off and asked her to be my girlfriend. everything has been great. perfect. no fights, no disagreements, we always have a great time together, sex is phenomenal. only one problem: her five year old ...
A. 4 August 2012: AS always,.... a Mother and her kid(s) come as a package. IF 1/2 the package is unacceptable... because the OTHER 1/2 of the package allows the first 1/2 to be intolerably bratty.... then you've got nothing to pursue.
I suggest you drop this wom... (read in full...)
Now he just wants to be friends. Says sleeping with me as a mistake. Can we start again or is it over?
Q. Hi, I need some relationship, love advice. I am 32 and a few months ago met a lovely guy. We slept together few times really early on and now his saying he just wants to be friend's to get to know each other as his never just slept with girl like ...
A. 4 August 2012: Let's look at the most-important part of your submittal: "His got a lot of female friends, but his very shy...you wouldn't think it, but when it comes to women, his never had a one night stand and has slept with 5 women." What more do you nee... (read in full...)
Should I listen to the little voice inside telling me something is not quite right?
Q. Something happened last night and I'm not quite sure what to think of it. I'm hoping you guys can give me your opinion. My boyfriend was supposed to come here last night at 7-8pm and not having heard from him at 7, I text him to get his ETA. He ...
A. 4 August 2012: Let's focus on this excerpt from your submittal:
"...and I don't feel like going anymore, I don't even feel like having him stay at my place this weekend."
That "little voice" inside your head is sending you a LOUD AND CLEAR message. You ar... (read in full...)
He is coming here to meet me and my friends tell me to be careful!
Q. Dear Aunts, Due to my own concerns I decided to post this question. This is regarding my boyfriend whom I met online almost 3 years ago. We live a world apart, and I've been the one making all calls. He did call several times but that's it. He ...
A. 4 August 2012: Please read and re-read your submittal, as often as necessary for you to see that this guy has absolutely NO INTEREST in you... OR, (aparently), in any other woman. HE is an "Alpha Male" who gets his kicks with controlling behaviour... and a ... (read in full...)
They guy I've been on and off with has said we can give it another go for 4 years, what does this mean?
Q. There this guy that i was seeing for a while then we broke up because he was going through some stuff. after 3 month its him again and he told me he missed me and want to make it work he offer me 4 years and asked me if i want more. We know each ...
A. 3 August 2012: He's trying to "tell" you that he likes s*x with you... and would like to resume that bit of what went on between the two of you..... BUT/AND it isn't something that he sees going on "forever"... but, instead, for not more than 4 years. That way, ... (read in full...)
I would like to work things out and be a proper couple, what do you suggest?
Q. Hi everyone I have liked this man for 18 months now it has just been sex but I really like him we haven't spoken for three months yesterday we bumped into one another and got talking he said he would come around to see me but he didn't turn up I ...
A. 2 August 2012: If it's been "just sex" in the past... then you can be sure that when "...he said he would come around to see me .." that he is/was looking for some more (s*x).... and if you are accomodating enough (read: "desperate enough") to be his tart, yet ... (read in full...)
He left to do drugs while I was making him dinner. Am I wrong for being mad?
Q. Okay so today I was hanging out with my boyfriend like normal, (we usually hang everyday) and hes a sweet heart. I really like him and maybe love him. But see the thing is he smokes weed, I don't really care about that but while I was making him ...
A. 2 August 2012: You EXPECTED him to act like an adult, and remain with you to share the meal that you prepared for the two of you. He chose to ignore your efforts (and the scrumptuous meal) and go off for HIS fun... The only thing "wrong" here is that YOU were... (read in full...)
Every time I invite her to do something she's busy. Is she just not interested?
Q. Hello, I met this girl a 2 weeks ago through a mutual friend. That night i took her number and told her we would do something soon enough. A few days later we went out and we had a blast, I ever ran into another friend of mine who saw us toget...
A. 1 August 2012: I think that you are being naive in believing that you and she can always/often/occasionally make spur-of-the-moment arrangements. If you REALLY liked this girl, and wanted to spend time with her, you could/would/should pin her (and yourself) down ... (read in full...)
Virgin with extremely high sex drive but don't want premarital sex!
Q. i am 24 year old female and virgin. I have an extremely high sex drive. Yet, I am a virgin and I havent even had my first kiss. Yeah, I have masturbated, but that hasnt helped and I dont want to continue masturbating either. Personally, I dont think ...
A. 1 August 2012: You've reached the pinnacle of what we call in the US, "Catch-22".....
You have only two choices... and you've stated, clearly, that you don't wish to partake of either....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
Am I weird that I have multiple girls I have a crush on and all at the same time? Does this happen to other guys?
Q. Is it weird to have crush's on different girls at the same time? I am a 13 year old guy and I want to know of it is a little weird to have multiple crushes all at the same time where I like different girls. I like girls and I have had lots of crush...
A. 1 August 2012: If I made an effort to list all the girls that I have a crush on - at any time - that list would look like a Manhattan phone directory...
You're all right!!!!!... (read in full...)
He's hurt so many people but I still have feelings for him
Q. Is this guy really a loser. ive got this ex from 5 years ago,occasionly he has contacted me and wanted to hook up,a few times i have given in to this. thing is he is 46 never been married he got a women pregnant but wasnt interested in th...
A. 1 August 2012: HOW can you spend so much time and effort delineating what a TOTAL A*S this guy is... and then write: "...i still got feelings for him.sometimes he acts like the charming person.why the hell am i caring about this guy..."
Please read your sub... (read in full...)
What exactly does "passionate sex" mean?
Q. Hi Everyone! So im seeing this new guy who is 8 years older then me,i am in my early 20's.Were getting on great and really enjoy being in eachothers company. The only thing that i am really worried about will be when it comes to our first time s...
A. 1 August 2012: I suggest that you print out a copy of this submittal.... show it to your new guy.... since: "...(We're) getting on great and really enjoy being in eachothers company...." which implies that you can speak about such a matter with him, and expect ... (read in full...)
My ex and her friends have turned my new girlfriends life into a living hell
Q. Okay so I dated this girl for a while and we even got engaged. We broke up because I made a horrible mistake. I wasn’t attracted to her and I didn’t love her, I proposed because I thought it was the right thing to do. When I realized that it was ...
A. 1 August 2012: You DUMPED HER, now let her stay DUMPED.... whilest you ignore her and her cohorts.... and get on with your life and your new G/F. How difficult is that????
Good luck...... (read in full...)
Do I show my friend the proof that her boyfriend is cheating on her or not?
Q. I am in a bit of a hard situation here. I have a male friend, and I recently found out that he is on a swinger site, and is meeting random people for sex. Now what he does is his business and normally I couldn't care less, except he has a ...
A. 1 August 2012: Yes, tell her. This guy is a DOG and doesn't deserve any cover from you....... (read in full...)
Should I stick it out for longer or leave? I'm caught between my feelings for him and logic and the need for growth.
Q. I have been having conflicting emotions regarding my boyfriend. He is very sweet and loving. He is emotionally supportive and playful. I love him very much and I know he loves me back. The problems are that we get into fights every other day....
A. 1 August 2012: If you were my sister, I'd say forget the "investment" that you think you've made.... and put LOTS of distance between you and this character...
Worried about "what he might do" if/when you dump him? That's none of your affairs.....
Good lu... (read in full...)
Why do woman hook up with married men?
Q. My question is simple, Why do women hook up with a married man? I would like to hear from those who had a relationship with a married man, why did you do it? Love? Sex? Adventure? ...
A. 1 August 2012: IN two words: "bad judgement".... (read in full...)
She lost the baby and she is crying and very upset. How do I comfort and support her?
Q. When we found out she was pregnant, it was a shock, she was excited but i was not so keen as i didn't ever see myself having kids. I got used to the idea and got excited and we went to look at baby clothes on the weekend and we had our first 12...
A. 31 July 2012: 1. Listen to her... a lot....
2. Listen to her... some more.
3. Hold her, when she reaches out to you.....
4. Tell her that she is beautiful and you love her...
5. Then, tell her, again, that she is beautiful, and you love her, and that yo... (read in full...)
How did you pick you wedding bands?
Q. Hi! This is a very shallow question but here it is. So, I'm getting married soon. Fiancé and I are going to pick up wedding bands this weekend. We both agreed we like them platinum, but I think I'd rather have it gold, you know, real yellow gold ...
A. 31 July 2012: I picked simple gold bands that I could afford and which could be sized to fit.
Is there more to this than that?????... (read in full...)
In order to be with him I've been lying to my family.
Q. hi im 18 and my boyfriend is 35. i have not.told.my.parents yet as they do not like the idea of age diffrrences when.it comes to relationships. ive never been with an.older man before so when my parents found out for the first time they freake...
A. 31 July 2012: The only REAL "question" here is: WHEN are you going to realize that a 35 year old man is ONLY interested in you because you are a tender, sweet (and maybe virginal) young lady who is enamored of him..... AND, he may get to have a torrid "romance" ... (read in full...)
Another crush on teacher...?
Q. Story about this is kinda complicated so it's the best to start from the beginning: I met him on my first day of high school. He introduced himself as our physics teacher for next 4 years. In that time never even came to my mind that I will ever...
A. 31 July 2012: Please, please, please.... get in line with the OODLES of young students who are going to have a crush on one, or more, of his/her teachers.... and who TRULY BELIEVE that they (you!) are that special one who REALLY is adult, mature and who brings to ... (read in full...)
I know the truth, still he tries to blame our son!
Q. My husband of many years has been on the internet chat with numerous girls, but one in particular for years.....I just found out this information of late. My problem is he will not admit to it....he blames it on our son...and calls me sick in the ...
A. 31 July 2012: You've really tipped your hand... that your hubby isn't much of a hubby, after all.....
This, most recent, is simply the culmination of YEARS of his not giving a damn about you....
Now that you know that, why not cast him from your life and ta... (read in full...)
Could it be he really doesn't want to get married?
Q. My boyfriend is 41 and has never been married. We have been together for a year. When I ask him if he sees himself getting married in the future his response is "maybe, I'm not sure". I would think that by 41 you would know if you wanted to get ...
A. 31 July 2012: The issue here is that YOU seem to want to be married. When you ask him - figuratively - if HE wants to be your marriage partner, HE sez something like, "I'm not sure..." or, "... maybe someday, but not now...."
That points to HIM not being mu... (read in full...)
My business partner is flirting with my crush and it's causing major waves in our friendship.
Q. Ok here goes. My bussiness partner is well known as a "Playa", so we'll call him P. He and I are friends first, partners in bussiness second. P is known for his success in seducing attractive young girls, something that I will admit gets me jealous ...
A. 30 July 2012: I'd tell P to stay away from this G..... or else you'll K him in the A!!!!!
Good luck....... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has suddenly up and left me for an unemployed drug addict
Q. My boyfriend of just over a year has finished with me for someone else. The woman he has left me for is a drug addict and alcoholic, has had her 3 children taken into care, is dirty, rude, violent, and unemployed living in an extremely run down and ...
A. 28 July 2012: If'n I were you.... I'd heave a big sigh of relief and say, to myself, "Good riddance. Now SHE can live with him... and him with her... and they will have a match made in Heaven."
You - meanwhile - can get on with having a reasonable, decent l... (read in full...)
Religious differences. Parental interference. I love him so much and I know he loves me too. What do I do!?
Q. I'm in love with my guy friend who has been brought up in one religion and me in another religion. I have started to question my beliefs about 2 years ago... now I identify as agnostic. A few months ago I told my parents about my love for my frie...
A. 28 July 2012: THIS is EXACTLY why having STRONG religious beliefs makes absolutely no sense.... Think of it.... "RELIGION" is some sort of arrangement wherein you "believe" you know about some imaginary "being" who has brought about the World... tho' no... (read in full...)
My wife likes acting flirty sexy with other men. Should we consider the threesome offer my friend has made?
Q. My wife has a sexy body and a real cute ass , she loves going 2 pubs and clubs with me and sitting fully clothed on other mens laps. She gets really turned on feeling their erection sticking into her private parts and we never make it home afterwar...
A. 28 July 2012: Just as you can't "un-ring" a bell, you must consider that - if you and she partake of a threesome - this will CHANGE your marriage and relationship FOREVER.....
Many marriages don't endure such a dalliance. You and wifey have to decide if you'l... (read in full...)
To me he is perfect. We plan to marry. But do you think he is gay? What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for seven years. He told me approx a year ago that before we got together he had two sexual encounters with another male. He said these two occasions happened within a few weeks of each other. They didnt h...
A. 28 July 2012: It sounds to me as if your intended best fits the label "bisexual."
IF that's so, then you have to make a decision if you want to risk being his partner, ASSUMING that his prediliction for experiencing s*xual things with men is OK with you...
... (read in full...)
Please help, I don't know what to do upon meeting my boyfriend's kids!
Q. My boyfriend and I are planning a play-date between his kids and my godchild (since I don't have kids). I'm nervous about meeting his kids, they're very pretty little girls, one is 9 and the other is 2. I just want them to like me, even a little. ...
A. 27 July 2012: Perhaps the only advice you need to hear is: "Don't act like their Father's girlfriend..."... (read in full...)
Do I agree to see him when he never responded back to my text?
Q. I met someone from online and we have been out on about 5 dates..things were going at a good momentum and we were pretty much in contact each day whether through phone or text. He has a different type of job where his schedule varies. He has shown ...
A. 27 July 2012: What you have described is a guy who is in the throes of keeping one girl "on the hook" (you) whilest being careful not to commit himself so much so as to prevent him from keeping a watchful eye - and being available for - "something better" that ... (read in full...)
Do I agree to see him when he never responded back to my text?
Q. I met someone from online and we have been out on about 5 dates..things were going at a good momentum and we were pretty much in contact each day whether through phone or text. He has a different type of job where his schedule varies. He has shown ...
A. 27 July 2012: What you have described is a guy who is in the throes of keeping one girl "on the hook" (you) whilest being careful not to commit himself so much so as to prevent him from keeping a watchful eye - and being available for - "something better" that ... (read in full...)
Now I'm in this predicament. But does he still love this other girl? Or is he just a player?
Q. My boyfriend (21) has told me he has had 3 past girlfriends (N, G, M) and that he's had sex with only 2 of them and he doesnt even remember who he fucked G or M. Those supposedly are the only girls he has had sex with and also the first girl he lost ...
A. 27 July 2012: "Sounds" to me as if you're hanging with an older guy who seems to take sex as some sort of sport, much like golf or tennis..... and he doesn't have the honor and wherewithal to be a man about it....
YOU've delineated all the things you like abo... (read in full...)
He has cheated before and I'm scared my boyfriend is cheating again
Q. My bf and I have been together for 2 years we have a baby together and we plan to get married in June 2013. But he has been acting strange getting mad at me all the time for asking him questions like where are you going ? That sort of thing he has ...
A. 26 July 2012: You keep asking "Where are you going?" when he leaves the house without you, and you know he is not going to work, or to the grocery or to get new tires for the car....
IF he continues to not have suitable answers for that question... then you... (read in full...)
Does my anger toward my boyfriend's drinking reflect deeper issues?
Q. Hey dearcupids! some advice would be very much appreciated. Me and my boyfriend have been together 6 months and are in a happy relationship. He treats me better than any man has ever treated me before and is always there for me when I need him....
A. 26 July 2012: Believe me... regardless, if you are OK with his drinking when you are there with him... it IS a problem (for BOTH of you, ultimately).... and isn't going to go away until/unless HE addresses it..... Take it from someone who continually abused ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to fantasize about your partner being with someone else well your masturbating?
Q. I was wondering is it normal to fantasize about your partner being with someone else well your masturbating? I dont understand it because when im not doing any thing sexual the thought of him being with someone else kills me but during the heat of ...
A. 26 July 2012: What goes on in your head whilest you are masturbating is/are YOUR thoughts.... they're private... and you may excursion as far out from "normal" as you wish....
Good luck...... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says he doesn't love me when we fight.
Q. My boyfriend (I am 31, he is 41, together for a year)and I have been fighting a lot. We are trying to work things out. When we fight he says that he shuts down emotionally and stops feeling love towards me. He refused to say "I love you" because ...
A. 26 July 2012: I spent six years with a woman who never said, "I love you." Subsequently, I "learned" that she didn't....
Sometimes, what people DON'T say tells you all you need to know.....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
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