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Am I weird that I have multiple girls I have a crush on and all at the same time? Does this happen to other guys?

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Question - (1 August 2012) 7 Answers - (Newest, 2 August 2012)
A male United States age 22-25, *erson23 writes:

Is it weird to have crush's on different girls at the same time?

I am a 13 year old guy and I want to know of it is a little weird to have multiple crushes all at the same time where I like different girls.

I like girls and I have had lots of crushes on girls before.

And still I see more girls I like. I want to know if it is strange to have like four to six girls I have a crush on all at the same time.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2012):

Nothing to worry about. You are still very young and probably more goes on in your imagination than in reality.

Maybe you could try and get to know these girls better as friend and then you will be able to know the reality of them and be able to see the differences between them.

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A female reader, Heyshorty16 United States +, writes (2 August 2012):

Heyshorty16 agony auntNo its not weird, your just curious about diffent girls. Once you find a girl that over looks them all you will forget about all the other.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (2 August 2012):

Honeypie agony auntSeems pretty normal to me.

However, If you start to date, try and focus on that ONE gril who is your girlfriend :)

Having a crush happens to everyone at any point in their life. As long as you can recognize it for what it is. (a crush not undying love) you will be just fine.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2012):

No, you're not weird at all. I'm a 23 year old woman married to a 24 year old man, and we both still get attracted to other people from time to time. So no need to worry.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (1 August 2012):

person12345 agony auntAt your age? No, it's pretty normal for a teenage boy to be attracted to lots of girls. Don't worry about it, just make sure that if you date one of them you try to keep this in check.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (1 August 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntIf I made an effort to list all the girls that I have a crush on - at any time - that list would look like a Manhattan phone directory...

You're all right!!!!!

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A male reader, Serpico United States +, writes (1 August 2012):

At your age, its not weird at all, and as you grow it may get worse (or better, depending on how you look at it!). I'm 44, and my attraction to woman sure hasnt diminished in the last 30 years.

You're a (soon to be) man, its very normal to be attracted to women. Just remember when you commit to one of them, you stay committed until you're not anymore!

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