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writes:Lately my bf of 4yrs has been letting his friends hit on me. They will do it right in front of him and he just smirks. They say some inappropriate things most of the time. Then just yesterday i was with my bf and his bff and his best friend would rub my leg if i sat down and would rub up against me i mean right in front of him. I told my bf how i feel about it he didnt say anything to his friend so i did. Then his friend pulled me aside and asked why i embarressed him and my bf like that. I mean he was standing so close to me i could feel his parts rubbing against me! And he was at attention. But my bf just let it happen? I just do not understand. Im starting to wonder if he wants a threesome? I dont know what to think. Should i try talking more? Ask him about a 3some, leave him? Im very confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2012): Your boyfriend is a creep and does not deserve you. My advice is to run out of that relationship as fast as you can, and don't look back. If he loved you or really cared he would never allow his so called bff to treat you like that, and what is he some little wimp afraid to stand up for you. Run girl run.
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reader, BsCake +, writes (5 August 2012):
They are treating you like a piece of meat and you shouldn't stand for it you need to tell your bf if he doesn't stand up for you and protect you and love you then you're going to need to break up. He sounds like a jerk anyway.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (5 August 2012):
 Next time (if you stay with this guy) one of his friends get a little to handsy/rubbing on you tell him to back the F away. You don't have to take that kind of disrespect.
Tell the "friend" to go hump a cactus.
Walk away from the situation, don't just stand there and "take it". It is not right. And yes, your BF should set his friend straight, but really, honey, you need to learn to stand up for yourself and say NO, when people aren't treating you right.
Screw what the "friend" want. Screw the 3-some.
Get some self respect girl!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (4 August 2012):
 I vote for "leave him".... he and his "friends" sound like creeps and no self-respecting girl (YOU!) should have to put up with that demeaning environment....
Good luck....
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (4 August 2012):
 I don't care whether his friends "want a threesome" or not. What they are doing is inappropriate and disrespectful. I would probably further exclude myself from activities or get-togethers where his friends are going to be in attendance. Also, I would consider whether he is really your boyfriend or not. If he was, he would make it clear to stay away from his girl not just laugh it off. I don't know too many men who would want you around their friends if they acted like that. Most men I know would put an immediate stop to it. Your boyfriends behavior makes me think he doesn't really care or else he is testing you to see how you are going to react. Probably the former if I was to guess. Whatever the deal...it isn't right.
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