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writes:Does it get less painful for girls to have sex with a big man over time?My girlfriend and i decided to have sex last night and she is very small (5ft, 95pounds) and im quite big (6'1 230) and roughly 7inches big, and she has only been with 1 other guy and that was over a year ago. We began having sex but i could only put 1/2 of it in her because it hurt her too much to put more in, but she said it was getting a little better but we eventually stopped because of it.Im worried that this will always happen, or does a girl get used to a guys size and eventually the pain goes away and just feels good? Reply to this Question
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reader, askJAY  +, writes (18 December 2008):
 she really needs to be wooed into a completely relaxed state...her pelvic muscles need to be subtle and the mood needs to be overwhelmingly romantic, so that her being is consumed by the gentle passions of love, RATHER THAN the big cock about to ram her between her legs!!
she will eventually stretch, but the focus must not be on stretching her, it should be on relaxing her :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): Being a girl myself, and having experienced this situation i can answer it for you :)
I find that being relaxed totally helps, so talk to each other and foreplay is good. use lubes as well- this makes it easier to enter her.
If it still hurts after trying Lubrication, try going in a bit at a time, dont penetrate- it may sound strange but the vagina will get used to the size, then once it is try going a little deeper- i does take time, but if your both willing to try..then believe me it helps.
good luck :)
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reader, EvieA +, writes (6 November 2008):
 She needs to relax.
Do it slowly too.
and she needs alot of sex for it to strech it wont do it on its own
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reader, Honeygirl +, writes (6 November 2008):
 The vagina is designed to accommodate a baby being born, so yes it does stretch! However as you are both still new at having sex, suggest lots of foreplay and lots of lube.. oh...and lots of practice! smile!!
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reader, Mandy7777 +, writes (6 November 2008):
Two things:
Make sure she is turned on before you have intercourse...
Second...try some lubrication...There are all sorts of great oils on the market....
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