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30-35,
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writes:hiI've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months now and we're very happy together. We often spend hours just led together in bed (we haven't slept together yet) and we normally end up making out with one of us on top of the other (fully dressed) with him kindof humping me. I would just like to know how normal this is and whether other people do this. And i'd also like to know what hes getting out of this, i've never noticed him having an erection does this mean i don't turn him on or can guys just control it. Also would it be better for him if i just led still, went with his motion or go against him?Thanks for your helpxxx
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reader, Bubblegum +, writes (6 November 2008):
 Hey there. Yeah, its totally normal dont worry about it. Me and my bf do it all the time. And I can say guys deffinatley get something out of it. Its like mastubating, and he probably does have an erection you just cant feel it. He probably doesnt come because he can control it, my bf can. Guys normally think girls like it too, so relax and enjoy it. And afew tips - thrust yourself against him
(they love it) and wrap your legs around his waist, i dont think ive known one guy that doesnt like it. I thought it was wierd at first but once i got used to it i loved it. Were not ready for sex yet so its the best alternative.
Hope this helps
Bubblegum xx
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (6 November 2008):
 Sounds pretty much like what I was doing with my boyfriends at your age. There's nothing wrong with it - though I would stick with that and not move too much farther very quickly. Making out and dry humping is so much fun and once you go all the way - you can never go back to just a good ol' make out and dry hump session.
I'm sure he finds you attractive or he wouldn't be rolling around with you! Don't worry about that, my sweet.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (6 November 2008):
 Sweetie, it sounds like you are both into some heavy petting. Quite normal for teenagers since hormones are at their peak. I am sure that he wouldnt be with you if he didnt find you attractive. I dont know if lying still is the answer, as you must also get some pleasure out of the act.
Honeygirl
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