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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi I'm 15 and my ex boyfriend has started telling people about our sex life. He is also 2 years older than me and told people in my school. It's making me feel cheap and disgusting and I don't know what to do :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): Just say to him, well remember you were having sex with an underage girl so keep your big mouth shut! That'll scare him to death
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): Apart from suing him for slander - false and malicious statements if there are any - there's not a lot you can do except to soak it up I'm afraid.
This could be an object lesson for you. You don't want to hear it, but you're too young to be having sex, especially with someone as immature as your ex, and this sort of thing is the result when you do.
Save yourself for the time when you have a truly committed relationship and try to make sure you're not just another notch on some jerk's bedpost. Sex should be a way of physically demonstrating your love and commitment to another person. It should't be seen as some sort of experimental pastime to while away a couple of hours, or something to be done because 'everyone else is doing it', or because some guy says "If you love me you'd have sex with me".
As for this jerk of an ex of yours, just tell him that unless he shuts his big gob, you'll tell anyone who's interested that he has a tiny dick and hasn't got a clue how to use it other than for pissing through. Or words to that effect.
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (15 October 2008):
this calls for a little revenge. Ask him why he is doing it and ask him not to, if he does not stop then u need to start telling people some little porky's about him, such as he is no good in the bedroom or has a little penis. of course this is very harsh, but if he is making u feel really bad and he won't talk about it with u then honey u have to be a bad girl. i know people always say u should not stoop to their level, but i've been in your posistion before and the only way i got him to stop was by telling his friends he was rubbish in bed and they should give him some pointers. he was there at the time when i said it. should of seen his face, priceless. if that's not your style then simply talk to the guy and tell him to stop.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (15 October 2008):
 He is an immature jerk!!! He obviously enjoys the attention he gets from telling everyone, makes him look like 'the man'.... We all react differently, but I would laugh about it then say... 'well I suppose he needs to boost his ego, cos his penis is soooooo small....' No man wants to hear that his penis is small.... if some of his friends hear this then perhaps he will think twice about talking about your sex life. You are well rid of him!
Honeygirl
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