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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:So I've been seeing this guy for almost a year we broke it off like once or twice. He told me he loves me and cares about me and the way he's been acting lately doesn't seem like he wants me to be around at all. It seems like he doesn't want this to work as bad as I do. He drinks so much more and is always with his friends, all I want from him is his time. I want to spend time with him and he told me last night that he doesn't trust me at all, he's never trusted me. He's scared to leave me alone with his kid. I feel like he's either seeing someone else or he's not sure of me.. I'm not sure if he's afraid of commitment or what. I'm so lost and confused I love him but I don't know what to do. I feel so unwanted.. compared to when I first met him. He was so into me and loving... and caring .. now it's like a totally different person. [long story made short ] Please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (21 November 2008):
 Sweetie, this man has a problem! What he has said to you is nasty and I think that he is happy with the situation, you are there for the sex, you are there looking after his kid, and you are there whenever he feels like being with you. His friends even sound more important than his own kid. Tell him you would like to go to couples counselling to sort out your differences, and if he feels that theres no problems, then I think its time for you to move on. Honeygirl
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